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I am 17 years old. I had so overprotective upbringing till 17. Before now, I never realized that all this is making me so dependent and weak. Even, I faced bullying and mental torture in my higher secondary school time for 2 years... Because of which my psychological health became worst... I badly seeked for help from my parents for improving my psychological health.. But they were not there for me.. They refused to gave me treatment from specialized mind healing centre. Now, I am completely shocked after understanding the fact that on the one hand.. Till the age 15 they have upbringed me in the very overprotective manner... And when i actually needed protection... Then they were not there for me.. I have realized that my parent's perspective is not right for me and can never be right for me.. I have faced a lot in my past bcz of my parent's perspective.. Till last month, I never defended myself but from last month I defended myself and stood for myself.. My mother behaves well with me now.. I stabled my mind... Situation is quite under control.. But my father still hurts me emotionally... Now the present external situation is not that worst but in my mind... I m really not able to carry this that why my parents did this.. 17 years 4 months mental and emotional torture can't be cured through their 1 month's light behavior... I want justice.. I want to move out in this age.. But everyone just say me that " if in present moment your parents are behaving good with you.. So y u don't you stay only here? " Look, I m really not able to carry, I m having sucidal thoughts.. So why not I move out from my parental house in this 17 years old age? After that torture, I think I should have Right.. They are behaving well with me bcz I defended myself But why I needed too..!? Is there any ngo for help? I want to stay there until I turn 18. After that I will take complete responsiblity of mine...If yes.., then can you please give me ngo details or help me to reach over there?

( Vadodara, Gujarat )

4 years ago

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As per you age the children have emotional ups & downs, & so is the same with you. You may be feeling that your are not right, but surely they will not do any bad for you. I hope you will be in your college years of 12 th grade. Try to make good friends in your college, engage yourself in some kind of hobby, develop interest in learning new things. Though there is lockdown try to engage your time in zoom meetings & webinar. Avoid all negative thoughts of suicide & all, ending the life is not a solution. But strongly defend it, think of all the positive ways, try to do meditation & yoga at home, it is not at all difficult every morning just give 15 minutes after you get fresh & take bath- Just sit down, close your eyes & deep breath in ...slowly release the breadth out.. Think of all the positive experiences in your life for daily 15 minutes, think positive that you are going to achieve a lot of success in your life & make your parents proud. Regarding to the NGO there are many but, they too requires parents consent & monthly hostel/ catering charges of about Rs.10k to Rs.15k depending on the type of NGO. If your parents are ready for the same then NGO may take up the case for your further betterment.

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