Divorce or Suicide
3 years ago
My life is not good in my married life. I got married 4 years back i have 2 years kid baby boy. My husband wants his sisters and his parents to be along with him. His main priority goes his family. they wish to me stay like as a maid, as a beggar of there home, as a money source, and to feed to their kid. Nothing else. There is no value for my life or thoughts, They wants to me to live like how they wants there won decisions. I am not aware of my husbands income or saving or any security deposits and i am not even know what he is earning what he is doing till now. But he know each and everything of mine.. i asked many times he wont give clarity on any maters always he will be scolding.
In this case i feel y i have to be here. I am not leading my personal life here i am there for them only i feel. I am from different state he is from different state both languages are different. always they watch tv shows news song all in there language. even i dont have 5 minutes freedom to listen my favorite song or stories in my home. also even i dont have to sit keep calm 5 minutes in there home always they say some or some work. If i sit they will be ready with something else.
And here i stayed till only for my baby reason. Please confirm can i have baby along with me. Because i am not sure they will take care my baby well. my husband can take care. but his mother sisters will double game or double role in front of him they will act different. when his absence they will behave very bad wit us.
I am scared to leave my baby with them. I told my husband many times but he is not ready to believe what i say, he believe them only. In this case what i can do. please suggest. And i am trying to apply divorce online before going to apply need all the main suggetions how can i come with this without any cases.
Also they blame only on me i wont work at home, i wont take care my kid. When i got delivered after coming from myhometown they used me like until i go ill that much i worked at home. his mother only sitting eating giving orders. not even 5 minutes they allowed me to sit at home. Whenver i cook she willl have problms. whenever i do home work she will have some problms thats the reason i wont care i wont do i do only weekedns if possible. As i am working in one of the realesate and secondhand sales compny. Ther will be lot more work compare to physicll it effects on background of my mind. it all depends on mentality. he wont think about that he wants his mother to be sit and eat always. e makes time for her. not for me. i should strugle only always they need.
i really dont want this part of their family they have lot of background stories and they always cheat tey always plan behind me . they will be waiting when i go out from home to do next dectionsl also they have taken me ne time tier native without tere plans there they made his sister to beat slap me.
I want also make case on them and his mother here i am not going to do anymore job and all i need life time security and lifelong my kid to be along wit me and life time fincial support i am not going to marry anyone in future anymore.
i dont know what i missed what i have writen wrong thing here whatever i got i have mentioned. will be excpecting answers soon.
i born 1991. I dont have father i have only my mother and sister. i dont want to disturb them now until she get marry. please suggest i have only two options either sucide or divorce
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Suneel Moudgil
Responded 3 years ago
2. the divorce can not be file online,
3. your facts are suggesting incidents of domestic violence,
now, if you want to remain in the matrimonial relationship, then, try to settle the matter amicably with your husband involving elders/relatives/friends etc and start afresh, and if, failed, file Restitution of conjugal rights petition in the Court,
and,
if you want to terminate the matrimonial knot, then,
try to settle the matter amicably with your husband involving elders/relatives/friends etc and go for Mutual Consent Divorce which will be decided in 6-18 months, and you both will be free to live life with your wish,
don't forget to draft an MOU before approaching Mutual Divorce, which is the most essential and important part of a Divorce case,
some basic points to keep in mind and put in writing through an MOU before filing the petition for mutual consent divorce are custody of kids, distribution of assets (movable/immovable), quash/withdraw of pending litigation if any, Maintenance (present/future), Alimony, mode and time of making the payment, streedhan, future litigation, etc.
if failed, you are advised to file/claim
498a complaint (for causing mental, emotional, physical and monetary abuse, etc)
Domestic Violence case (for causing mental, emotional, physical and monetary abuse, etc)
you have rights to claim residence, protection, compensation, maintenance,
you can take your baby with you,
The mother usually gets custody of the minor child, under the age of five