Divorce Case Suggestion
3 years ago
I am blessed with 2 kids 10 years and 6 years, both girls. 11 years of marriage. Me and my wife thinks that we should get separated mutually(as of now) and I think the same because of a lot of unsimilarities we have in common. She finds her own way of saying no to things and doesn't support/like being with my family or me being closely associated with them. We both feel that the only reason we are together after 11 years is our kids, else we would have been separated years ago. What do you think we should be doing? Already taken psychiatric help but in vain.
A.As you both have already decided to stay separately currently you may stay separated for six months or so and then you may decide if you would like to go ahead for mutual divorce along with the child custody and who will bear their expenses.
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A.Since you have tried to save your marriage but in vain. If both of you want to give another try in sake of kids then go for counselling, or else can go for mutual divorce before that decide on child custody and their expenses etc., and make an joint memo then proceed with mutual divorce or judicial separation.
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Ayantika Mondal @ Prime Legal
Responded 3 years ago
A.Hi,
The general standard for divorce under Indian marriage laws in an irrevocable breakdown of the marital relationship. While you can say that has happened with your wife, I think it is important to think of the reason you're staying together, your daughters. Being so young, they might not be able to comprehend why their parents have separated, and this can cause them problems in the future. I think you should try to find strength in your differences instead of seeing it as a problem. She must have a reason for not supporting you or your family, and I believe if you spend time to figure out what it is, both of you can find middle ground and maintain an amicable relationship until the children have grown up.
I would also recommend giving couples therapy or marriage counselling more time to work, as it is a gradual process.
The general standard for divorce under Indian marriage laws in an irrevocable breakdown of the marital relationship. While you can say that has happened with your wife, I think it is important to think of the reason you're staying together, your daughters. Being so young, they might not be able to comprehend why their parents have separated, and this can cause them problems in the future. I think you should try to find strength in your differences instead of seeing it as a problem. She must have a reason for not supporting you or your family, and I believe if you spend time to figure out what it is, both of you can find middle ground and maintain an amicable relationship until the children have grown up.
I would also recommend giving couples therapy or marriage counselling more time to work, as it is a gradual process.
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A.Hi,
The general standard for divorce under Indian marriage laws in an irrevocable breakdown of the marital relationship. While you can say that has happened with your wife, I think it is important to think of the reason you're staying together, your daughters. Being so young, they might not be able to comprehend why their parents have separated, and this can cause them problems in the future. I think you should try to find strength in your differences instead of seeing it as a problem. She must have a reason for not supporting you or your family, and I believe if you spend time to figure out what it is, both of you can find middle ground and maintain an amicable relationship until the children have grown up.
The general standard for divorce under Indian marriage laws in an irrevocable breakdown of the marital relationship. While you can say that has happened with your wife, I think it is important to think of the reason you're staying together, your daughters. Being so young, they might not be able to comprehend why their parents have separated, and this can cause them problems in the future. I think you should try to find strength in your differences instead of seeing it as a problem. She must have a reason for not supporting you or your family, and I believe if you spend time to figure out what it is, both of you can find middle ground and maintain an amicable relationship until the children have grown up.
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Ankur Goel @ Complete Law Shield
Responded 3 years ago
A.if already took help and it not helped then its better to live happy.
by living together being unhappy will not solve problem of kids but it will increase it.
mutual divorce is best if you both can agree for children custody and maintenance.
Hope this clarifies,
Advocate Ankur Goel
by living together being unhappy will not solve problem of kids but it will increase it.
mutual divorce is best if you both can agree for children custody and maintenance.
Hope this clarifies,
Advocate Ankur Goel
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