I need suggest what legal step should be taken I need suggest what legal step should be taken

3 years ago

,   I am  looking for help to guide and suggest for the incident happened.   We were on dating site tinder..after using a week I got this person but after talking him I thought to quit  and the  stopped  as he started talking me but  he is married that he wasn't revealed me. This married man cheated me more than one and half a year saying he is legally separated and filed for divorce and no more contact with her in any case and looking to get rid off her. This same Statment and saying single not even have any affairs  asked to trust and sentimentally trapped me knowing that i don't have any of his friends or family not even familer with any his personal details so keep lying me. After a year he started avoiding after causing me physically and mentally I was in totally depression for quite long time but i never tried to disturb him thinking of one day he will realise but no use after several times telling him that cause me and harmed me using me for sexual pleasure when he's done that started making distance and saying no use of going ahead I have own commitments and my office work increase now I have my own business can't give time and all   , very firstly he started saying very serious about me and this relationship and wants to keep continue  but being with me also he was in another dating site and other womens too.. This I got to know last year around month of September and I have records of pics and profile the way he stated single and exploring himself and offering other womens to make him impress . So in that way we ended up by catching him but till last moment he keep saying that he's not with any other women not even with his wife they are not staying together no concerns to each other. Some how I tried to contact with other family members by fb messenger after long time I got his cousin reply when I explained everything he was shocked knowing that he lying that not staying with his wife and staying in HIRANanDANI as he introduced me but actually he stays in kalwa. After several time keeping physical relation every time he insisted me to take  pills every time giving excuses  instead of using  protection . And it caused me for that i had to go through treatment then it took worst shape doct suggest me for minor surgery and I was alone going through everything after informed him many times also shared pics to him what he has done and what happened.but he's side no reply no concerns and calls. Left me as it is without saying anything and one fine I asked him to meet and talk about all this whats he wanted to do and now happened but it took so long time due to this lockdown. I kept this topic  without adding anything hoping one day meet and confront everything, but last meeting also no use.he clearly said he's not looking for anything he wasnt mean for any relationship but just fell for it and don't want to go further but truth was something that he's staying with his wife. After that  I tried to contact his family member to tell this all mess and finally after long time after a six to seven months He's cousin came in contact on FB and told everything about him what is actually and what not then I asked this all this married person ,is that true or not but said it's all lie and  whoever gave info I will smash them and to you , also if trying to do anything.  When I realised he's cheating on me and trying to protect himself the way he behaving like enemy .stopped contacting when I tried to connect and ask to meet and end up this but not over the call. Now he stating that I asked for relationship and he don't this same lines came to know from his wife when I contacted him she started abusing words and assaulted on chat also threatened me saying of I try anything then I have to pay cost for it.. But she is totally blind only accusing me without knowing truth and listening what his husband that married cheated person told her or showed his own chatting that he did it recently by denying to meet and contact but beyond that scene she doesn't know anything not he told but after doing this much caused he trying hide and close this chapter. In fact always spoke about his wife against and said she wants to destroy me and I don't want to continue with her no plan. I didn't asked for any wedding commitments before but I told him if you are serious then there should be futuristic otherwise no use to continue its not good I don't want but still said will think about it it's been three times but never talked anything serious. But now everything standing  on his side and seems he' is right and am wrong coz he has right to do he being a man he can do anything still right and knowing that i am a divorced  and single parent I never ever demanded or asked any help or anything to receive infact gave him gifts done shopping twice as he wanted. I trusted him in everything coz he cried twice saying just trust me and pleaded many times. And now talking  why u trusted me and don't give importance e to any time and behaving he's teaching me lesson after harming and physical caused putting me in mental and physical problems. Now everything seems like helpless no one is trusted and hopeless only causing me in everything I have only few evidence pic and he's early chatting I deleted his number in between lockdown period due to under depression and went through all pain.. Deleting everything I was trying to forget and focus on my work but whenever I used to get that same pain after surgery what all happened . I tried to tell him and what he done.. He accepted but saying now I cant help to correct anything leave me forget and move on.. This is what I cannot do just leaving him and encouraging him to do more and taking other women's life lightly and harming but no  responsibility towards his mistake not even realisation. In fact he's wife stating that leave him and move if I try to do anything I have to face many things. She's threatened me. Please suggest step I should take in this case. I want to teach him to confront and life lesson but legally

Prabhakara S K Shetty

Responded 2 years ago

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A.Recent High Court decisions suggest that he is not guilty of rape. And you can only complain to police, you cannot register FIR as suggested here.
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Ayantika Mondal @ Prime Legal

Responded 3 years ago

A.Hi,
You can approach the police and register a complaint against him.
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Responded 3 years ago

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A.Hi,
You can register an FIR against him in the nearest police station.
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Gopal Gupta

Responded 3 years ago

A.Hi..
If you make physically relationship with that guy then you can go for FIR IPC sec. 376, 420, 415.

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Kishan Dutt Kalaskar

Responded 3 years ago

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A.Dear Madam,
Such big narrations should not be put on public platforms. Anyway you are advised to approach Higher Police Officers who may react to your complaint and tried to arrest that guy and file a FIR against him.

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Advocate Niyas Fazal A

Responded 3 years ago

A.Madam you have to brief your matter.
In this regard section 375 is related to sexual offences because the your consent shall not fall under the seven descriptions of section 375.
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Advocate Niyas Fazal A

Replied 3 years ago

Deepak Gulati Vs State of Haryana, (2013) in this case supreme court observed, an accused can be convicted for rape only if the court reaches a conclusion that the intention of the accused was mala fide, and that he had clandestine motives.

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Advocate Niyas Fazal A

Replied 3 years ago

section 90 described what is not consent. In my observation he obtained your consent that he is living separately with his wife and filed divorce petition it is immaterial. Because he filed divorce petition so there is still possibility to reunion hence it may consensual sex.

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Advocate Niyas Fazal A

Replied 3 years ago

One more thing I have to add section 354A also not attracted.

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