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2 years ago

Hi, I got married in 2005. Have 2 kids aged 13 and 8. My wife is having issues since the beginning of our marriage. She is masters in commerce and after marriage I made her to complete B.Ed. and was teaching in a school. But as per her aggressive behavior she was terminated and didn't got any job elsewhere. She is a housewife but not ready to do any household job. She never losses any chance to fight or misbehave in the family. From last 3 years she is a asking for divorce. I asked her parents and somehow things were going like that only. But now since his father is no more she is again asking for divorce. Last year she reached women cell also and we had counseling sessions for 2 months and withdraw complaint. The counselor told me that your wife is only troubling you she will never give you divorce. As on date she is asking for divorce but not doing anything for the same. Everyday she fights with me and the family members and creating issues. Kindly advice me what to do in this as we are 5 members in our family my dad, 2 kids and both of us. Regards, Navtej

Pooja Sathe

Responded 2 years ago

A.Hello,
First, think about your decision, if you want to give her divorce then ask for a mutual divorce. Discuss with her about your kid's future and custody, education, etc., and then decide mutually terms and conditions relating to divorce. If she is only troubling you, then take her for counseling, to understand her behavior is harmful to her kids also.
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Ankur Goel @ Complete Law Shield

Responded 2 years ago

A.you not said what you want.
you are saying she is having issues since the beginning of marriage from 2005.
but when she wanted divorce then you asked her parents and continued for 3 yrs.
she filed complaint also then also you continued.

You want her only to file divorce ?
who is stopping you to file divorce ?
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Anik

Responded 2 years ago

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A.Hi,
Try to resolve the issue amicably, and go for mutual divorce. As contested divorce would be hard to get if you wife decides otherwise and contest. Nevertheless, you can file for divorce under the grounds of cruelty and harassment.
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Ayantika Mondal @ Prime Legal

Responded 2 years ago

A.Hi,
Best course of action for you would be to try and settle the matter amicably with the wife. You can also go for mutual divorce, if that doesn't work out, then file for contested divorce. You can seek divorce on the grounds of cruelty and harassment.
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