Divorce mediation process and success
2 years ago
Me and my wife are married for 15 years and we had miserable togetherness. Last year we decided to part away and I filed divorce . She surprisingly filed DV and 498 . Now the situation is that our relations have got extremely bitter.
Even after filing 498 and DV she is pursuing me for staying together via phone call and I am not interested stay with her i am decided.
Now court has send to divorce mediation and once we had this round.
Mediator has asked her to settle the matter mutually ,since i am not ready to accept her since litigation are of no use and kids will also get harassed.
How to win a mediation process since I want mutual divorce (she is having revengeful mentality and money minded)?
She is B TECH but currently unemployed since last two months ONLY , I am employed currently with Stable income.
How much could be the monthly or one time alimony (percentage of salary etc)?
PLZ help what should be a agreeable deal for me (monthly or permanent)?
Pardeep Kumar Dhiman Dhiman
Responded 2 years ago
Rahi baat parmanant maintenance ki vah aap dono ke families status par nirbhar karta hai.
Ab aap ki wife bhi educated hai. Is par supreme court dwara alag alag view hai. Mil bhi sakta hai nhi bhi.
Apne divorce petition ko contest kariye.
Yadi aap satisfied hai to tag kijiye.
Ankur Goel @ Complete Law Shield
Responded 2 years ago
She have to get job withing fixed time.
Alimony will depend if she is able to prove allegations.
For Mutual Divorce it all depends on your negotiation skills with her.
There is trick by which she will not get anything and you will be free from her.
Ayantika Mondal @ Prime Legal
Responded 2 years ago
A one time alimony will consume upto 20% to 33% of your total net worth. On the other hand, a monthly alimony will take upto 25% of net monthly salary. Therefore, financially weigh your possibilities and then enter into any agreement.
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The mediation depends upon the factual matrix of the case and whose side the weight will tilt. However regarding the alimony, consider this. If you think you will be gathering more assets in the future then go for a one-time settlement now which will give up to 33% of your total assets to your wife. In monthly payment, 25% of your salary will go to your wife.
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It depends upon several factors. If you are not in urgency then post pone the issue.