Problem with Spouse Problem with Spouse

2 years ago

I married a girl who did MBA on 2019 June 6th its been two years as of now. I am software engineer Bangalore i am from Andhra Pradesh. I setup a family at Bangalore only after marriage, i am from Farmer background family , after setup family she literally denied to come to my home town she told she need separate house ........and she not interested to come to village. She had two more sisters and they indirectly asking my salary and expenses everything and her parents also started rude behaving with me why are you coming to your place you have to be in Bangalore only, whenever i come to village for festivals after two aor three days her parents used to call me, why u still there when u are going back to Bangalore they are doing like this if i dint go bangalore they used to come and ask we will take my daughter for two days to home like this. They were doing like this. Even we dint take any dowry from her as well, but they literally want to separate me from my parents. Last year lockdown time i came to my village and i stayed there for one and half month .....before that she went to her parents house and stayed for one week and i went get back to my home after one week again they came to my home and asked we will take her some more days they i sent her for first marriage anniversary i went for this occasion and evening i asked her come will go she denied i will not come there i will come to bangalore only . They bagan quarrel with me i tried to convince then but they did not. Finally i only went to my home without her ...They dint respond my parents as well after two months when buses started from andhra to karnataka they take her to my home and left .....again after one week they called me again when u are going to bangalore. Finally i took her bangalore on july 28th she is there with me till october 9th we had a planned trip to my home for ration card splitting ...she denied to come with me again . That night i begged her like anything for 15 minutes she dint tell anything she told she will not come , then i said her i will go you can stay safe here i will be back again she said okay , then i started preparing she said again go now and u will get to know what will happen her she daunted me . I called to her parents they also talked with again you back to your home its not more than two months also like that they said on top of that they said i am doing politics with her daughter it seems. Then i cut the call i asked my wife why your parents are doing like this what politics i am doing with you she arrogantly replied to me hey go and ask who asked you might be your doing , then i slapped her one time thats it , immediately they called to my wife and talked with tamil i dont know what conversation had been done , then suddenly she told she will come with me i am so happy then we were taking luggage between also they continuously called her , she took all old clothes what their parents bought it for her , she dint take clothes which i bought it for her. i asked why are you taking all old clothes she said you bought for me enough dresses these things i will give for my sisters then i believed her. When we boarded to bus they continuously called her and follow up with her about my journey. Then before reaching my place i asked her why your doing like this she said nothing just i will go my home and come back ....whenever i used to travel from bengalore to my place first we visit my place when i return back to banglore i took her to her place ,but this time she said not your place first my place i said okay. But as soon as i get down bus their parents are already there she removed watch and sim and kept on my pocket and went with their parents.
Then i called to their parents on ration card splitting day that is after two days but they dint pick my call.....she dint come for ration card as well . After 5 more days i went to their home asked her come will go she said after 15 days i will come to bangalore only, then i said okay .....after 15 days also she dint come and she dint called me i used to call her only as of now its been 8 months i took my relatives and cops but they dint respond me back. After 2 and half month i informed her if you not come i will vacate house she said as your wish. I vacated and after that i took cops to their home she said no problem with him .. we are fine small misunderstanding then CI sir told then go with him she said tomorrow my father will come and talk with you . We went that day also when i called her father he gave phone to Lawyer sir , Sir told to cops this is a family issue ask him to call me, i left from station i dint any call from them after one day i sent leegal notice to come and join , you are looking for illutatom-son-in-law. this will not happen come and join with me. After 12 days i got replied from them full of allegations dowry i asked her it seems i used to beat her it seems...i dint allow her to talk with her parents it seems.....and finally they said ask him to setup family at bangalore only i will join like this. I replied on same day i dint do all these allegations i can prove myself i am not setup family at bangalore again , u can join with me after receiving this notice .
they dint respond me after this notice this happens on December 2020. After that also i used to called her texted her but no response. Last month i sent for divorce legal notice she replied me back i need to pay 50k per month , i dont have any ground it seems she asking me to pay 50k per month my parents having some lands it seems. Now what i have to do sir/Mam i dont have any assets i am only self employed , can i file divorce case from court directly? if i file do i need to pay 50k to her they wontedly did like this they trapped me i dont have any kids as of now she is with me hardly 10 months she used to do like this only. please help me on this

Kishan Dutt Kalaskar

Responded 2 years ago

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A.Dear Sir,
Always be brief in submitting your question so that expert lawyers can read it. You may file divorce case and need to pay monthly maintenance to your wife depending upon several factors the quantum of maintenance will be decided.
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Ayantika Mondal @ Prime Legal

Responded 2 years ago

A.Hello, you can contact the police station in response to the FIR and provide a statement that all of her charges are false and made-up lies. You might also gather proof to establish that no dowry was stolen from them. Furthermore, the beating was little and occurred as a result of grave provocation.
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A.Hi,
you can reach out in reply to the FIR to the police station and can give a statement that all the allegations leveled by her are false and made-up stories. Further, you can gather evidence to show that there was no dowry taken from them. Further, that the beating was consiquential and a result of grave provocation.
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Abhimanyu Shandilya

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A.The best thing that you can do is to hire immediately a divorce lawyer in Bangalore or Andhra and file a case before she files a case. If she files a case then you will have to manage with logistics issues.
You don't have to pay her nay maintenance unless there is a court order so. let her file a case for maintenance and she herself is an MBA so the court will take note of that might not allow any maintenance.
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Tanmoy Chattopadhyay

Responded 2 years ago

A.Look if you haven't filed the divorce and you are determined to take divorce then file a divorce petition accordingly and appoint a good lawyer and explain all these things to him/her. Since you and your wife speaks different language so a lawyer conversant with both the language should be your preferred counsel. You can certainly escape paying any maintenance if you can prove that the wife has left without any reasonable cause. Your other situations can be explained before the court under the relevant provision of law and the court will certainly weigh them before giving her any maintenance.
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Pardeep Kumar Dhiman Dhiman

Responded 2 years ago

A.Aap aapash me baithkar samadhan kare. Aap dono educated ho. ho sakta hai kuch misunderstanding ho uska aapash me baithkar ke samadhan kare.
Vaise kisi ko kisi ke khilaf case karne se rok nhi sakte hai. Aap ki wife aap ke virudh case kar sakti hai.
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Anish Palkar

Responded 2 years ago

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A.It is very sorry to know that your wife has been cheating you with all the false grounds. In such situation you should go for divorce and need not pay to her 50k... you require a good lawyer to prove your side.
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Sidhaarth

Responded 2 years ago

A.You are firstly required to be strong enough and should have courage wrong a wrong. You should file divorce case but before filing divorce case you should safe guard your parents and other near and dear as your wife may misuse law by filing false cases. She is educated one and can earn handsomely do her claim for maintenance can be contested in several grounds. Further maintenance depends not upon demand of girl only but it depends upon income and liabilities of husband.
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