Mental Harassment by husband what to do now?
I got married on 10th dec. 2020. Arranged marriage. On the first night itself my husband said, that he had no feelings for me as he was not interested to get married at all. They knew before marriage that I don't have a job. I was giving private tuitions to some children before the lockdown. But right after the wedding day they were insulting me in front of everyone that I have no job. I won't get a job as I passed out from IGNOU. Why didn't my parents give them enough gold? Even though they have given enough. They didn't like me talking to my parents. They taunted me for that also. Why do I eat buffet, horlicks etc. After that I went to Delhi with my husband. He didn't have any interest in me. At the wedding night itself, he told me that he got married only because of his family pressure as he didn't want to get married ever. I am still a virgin. He gave no attention to me ever. They even taunted me because I bought utensils for cooking because he didn't have anything in his Delhi's house. I don't know much cooking, they knew it but when I asked to keep a cook they taunted me for that also. After so much pleading he kept a cook. He didn't talk to me without any reason. He most of the time was out locking me inside. He never cared for me. If I asked for a doctor, he used to say, Kolkata jaa rahi ho, waha jake baap se kahena dikha de. After that, 30th Jan I came back to Kolkata for my cousin's wedding. From that time I have been at my parents house. He never cared to call me or msg me for once. If I called him or msg him he never replied if he didn't find it important for him. His mother asked me not to step foot in their house because I forgot to call them after landing here in Kolkata. For the past 5 months I have been here but they didn't bother. I tried to contact them. I wished him birthday, his mother's mother's day. When I wished him birthday, he replied. When I wished his mother on mother's day, she asked me to come back suddenly after no contact for 5months. Every time me or my parents contacted them. But, I thought many times and made a decision that I want divorce as I don't want to destroy my life over such a person who never cared for me, loved me, treated me like some animal and mentally tortured me in 2 months of staying with them. But when I asked for divorce they suddenly acted like how much they loved me and simultaneously accused me of everything. One more important thing is I AM STILL VIRGIN. He never touched me for once in 2 months of staying together. Please help me out. I don't know what to do? If I get alimony if I go for annulment or mutual divorce. I don't want to stay with him even for a moment. Even during the cooling period. After I asked for divorce, they suddenly Watsap me. I didn't reply obviously. Plz let me know also, if its right thing to do to not replying my cousin sister in law.
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