Women threatening to marry
2 years ago
Hello,
I am P, 30 year. There's a girl named 'X' , 26years. We used to work at the same place. Back in 2018 this girl and I were friends. She proposed me and I rejected her. Then later she said "okay let's be friends" and to that I agreed. We used to study together for exams at her place. I used to stay with her late nights at her place somedays considering her as a good friend. She acted like a friend for certain period of time and then started torturing me to accept her. But I didn't. She used to take poison bottle, blade and other things to threaten me to have a physical relationship with her. She forced me to have a physical relationship (sex) with her to which I never gave my consent. She always forced me and threatened me. And we never had a conversation about marriage or love for that matter. She never said she wants to marry me.
I stopped talking to her in 2019. I used to block her mobile phone. She used to call me with new numbers and threaten me to talk and meet. She used to say atleast talk to me as a friend. Still I ignored her not giving much attention to her. No meetings no talks. Once in a while I was forced to talk to her.
I never said I will marry her or I love her. But now she is making a whole drama that we both loved each other for 3 years and she wants to marry me. I never had that feeling for her.
I treated her like a friend and she is now threatening me that she will file a police complaint against me if I would not marry her.
I don't want to marry her.
She threatened me like this from the start and now ruined my whole family into this issue.
What should I do now?
Please help me
Thanks and Regards
Prasad
You should immediately file a complaint against her for harassment as these cases can be propounded beyond limit if left untouched. As well as keep your acquaintances in confidence which could help you in future.
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Nobody believe your words if she approach the police and lodge a criminal complaint against you. Better canvas for a better bridegroom for her and thus you may close the issue otherwise you cannot come out of this issue forever.
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Ayantika Mondal @ Prime Legal
Responded 2 years ago
The situation can be misinterpreted by many people when you listen to such stories so instead of going places and seeking help go to the police station and make a note of this situation where she is threatening you. Keep people around you in confidence so that it will be helpful for you in the future.
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