MY HUSBAND SPENDS NO TIME WITH ME MY HUSBAND SPENDS NO TIME WITH ME

5 years ago

Hi..i m harleen kaur ahuja..i am from rudrapur..i got married in 2017 in march.
i have my love marraige with karandeep singh ahuja. I know him about 2 years before marraige..We met also many times before marraige. My life is changed totally..
My husband now do not give me any time to me ..not spending any quality time with me..giving his top priority to his family mainky his mother and 4 sisters. These sisters are all married and also have their children..
I am very getting upset and gking into depression..I am not at all happy with my marraige..
These things are continously going from the April month 2017 last year..
I am really not happy with my marraige because my husband not spending his free time or any time with me..He always used to or want to sit with his mother and whenever his sister comes at home he take care of them only..He never asks me about anything..

I am facing my husband drink issues also..
He drinks everyday when he is outsids the home specially at night..When he drunk he wants to get close to me but if he not he never want to get close..
i dont know what is the exact reason with him?
In Drinking..he abuses a lot and say bad language or he more sweet to me..
If he get good mood only then he talk to me otherwise..He addict to phone also like he use many social media apps and play games on phone..

I tried many times talking to him but he never responded and dont want to listen to me regarding this..
He never listens to me calmly if i want to talk to him politely about this matter..

I have my child (baby girl) of around 10 months..My husband spends his time to his daughter not me..
He not loves me anymore..

i a getting upset each and everyday now..i really feel alone and lonely now..i do not know what to do to keep my family life happy or should i take any action..

OVERALL I AM NOT HAPPY WITH MY HUSBAND OR MY MARRAIGE..PLEASE SUGGEST ME RIGHT..
PLEASE

Shanti Ranjan Behera

Responded 5 years ago

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A.Dear Client,
Whether the advice which reached you during past weeks has changed your life in the meantime?
If the answer is yes, how it has changed.
If not, what exactly you are thinking and what exactly you want.
After hearing from you, I will advice you.
Shanti Ranjan Behera,
Advocate
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Deepak Yashwantrao Bade

Responded 5 years ago

A.Dear client firstly try to solve your matter with discussion amicably with elders.if no solution find out then go through family court lawyer for filing divorce
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Vishwabandhu

Responded 5 years ago

A.Dear client first decide what u want ?
Dear client your husband has become addict of liquor and being drunk he is not acting wusely.

Now decide that do u want divorce ? Or u want to continue your relationship ?

Law and judges will not come to solve your day to day querell. So it is u to decide.
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Muskaan Ahuja

Replied 5 years ago

I WANT TO TAKE DIVORCE BUT I AM IN A DIFFICULT SITUATION..
PLEASE READ MY SITUATION..
Moreover, i want to take advice or legal advice that my mother in law is operated before 10 days..now she is in bed..problem is now my parents saying that " You should take care of your mother in law" until she completely fine.. NOW I JUST NEED AN ADVICE THAT WHAT SHOULD I DO.. I JUST SUFFOCATING HERE BECAUSE I TOLERATING ALL THIS AND MY MOTHER IN LAW IS HOSPITALIZED..WHAT SHOULD I DO? PLEASE TELL ME LEGAL OPINION ...? PLEASE SUGGEST ME MY MAIN POINT IS THAT PARENTS ARE NOT SUPPORTING ME IN THIS MATTER..THEY SAID TO CONTINUE MY MARRAIGE AS THINGS ARE NORMAL in every marraige.. My mother and father both are not supporting me....

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Muskaan Ahuja

Replied 5 years ago

I WANT TO TAKE DIVORCE BUT I AM IN A DIFFICULT SITUATION..
PLEASE READ MY SITUATION..
Moreover, i want to take advice or legal advice that my mother in law is operated before 10 days..now she is in bed..problem is now my parents saying that " You should take care of your mother in law" until she completely fine.. NOW I JUST NEED AN ADVICE THAT WHAT SHOULD I DO.. I JUST SUFFOCATING HERE BECAUSE I TOLERATING ALL THIS AND MY MOTHER IN LAW IS HOSPITALIZED..WHAT SHOULD I DO? PLEASE TELL ME LEGAL OPINION ...? PLEASE SUGGEST ME MY MAIN POINT IS THAT PARENTS ARE NOT SUPPORTING ME IN THIS MATTER..THEY SAID TO CONTINUE MY MARRAIGE AS THINGS ARE NORMAL in every marraige.. My mother and father both are not supporting me....

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Vishwabandhu

Replied 5 years ago

Dear Client have patience . Let your mother In law recover and be discharged from and then lodge an FIR against your husband in Mahila Thana of Domestic voilence .

Even after it if the situation is not changed then file a case of Divorce. For it u need not any assistance of your parents. If u r unable to engage any Lawyer go to Legal Aid Section in Court and U will get a free Lawyer.

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ARPIT BATRA

Responded 5 years ago

A.Pl try to solve the matter among yourselves amicably initially.
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Muskaan Ahuja

Replied 5 years ago

I WANT TO TAKE DIVORCE BUT I AM IN A DIFFICULT SITUATION..
PLEASE READ MY SITUATION..
Moreover, i want to take advice or legal advice that my mother in law is operated before 10 days..now she is in bed..problem is now my parents saying that " You should take care of your mother in law" until she completely fine.. NOW I JUST NEED AN ADVICE THAT WHAT SHOULD I DO.. I JUST SUFFOCATING HERE BECAUSE I TOLERATING ALL THIS AND MY MOTHER IN LAW IS HOSPITALIZED..WHAT SHOULD I DO? PLEASE TELL ME LEGAL OPINION ...? PLEASE SUGGEST ME MY MAIN POINT IS THAT PARENTS ARE NOT SUPPORTING ME IN THIS MATTER..THEY SAID TO CONTINUE MY MARRAIGE AS THINGS ARE NORMAL in every marraige.. My mother and father both are not supporting me....

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Kishan Dutt Kalaskar

Responded 5 years ago

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A.Dear Madam,
Immediately you may file DV case with following reliefs.
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PRAYER
HENCE THE APPLICANT HUMBLY PRAYS
A) to take cognizance for the offence punishable u/s 498A IPC and punish Respondent No.1 to 3 as per law and extend police protection to the deponent,

B) Pass orders u/s 19, based upon S.17, granting separate residence for herself and her three children at a monthly rent of Rs. 20,000/- and advance of Rs. 5,00,000/-.

C) Pass orders u/s 18, in totality against Respondent No.1 to 3,

D) Pass orders u/s 20(i) granting Rs.25,000/- per month as maintenance for applicant and maintenance at the rate of Rs. 5,000/- each per month to her three children.

E) Pass orders granting Rs. 5,00,000/- for setting up house hold requirements, in granted residence, to make it livable, as the applicant cannot return to the house of Respondent No.1 as he is residing in the house of respondent No. 3, which is legally prohibited,

F) Pass orders granting litigation expenses of Rs.1,00,000/- as the applicant made to wander from pillar to post for getting legal aid to attend the Hon’ble Court, whereas, the Respondent No.1 falsely filed Divorce Petition.

G) The applicant also filed interim application supported by affidavit u/s 23(1) and (2) of D.V.Act,

H) That any other order/s, this Hon’ble Court deems fit, to meet the ends of justice, be passed.

For full procedure contact me through Vidhikarya.
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Muskaan Ahuja

Replied 5 years ago

sir..i told them ( parents also) and my husband very calmly about this matter..my parents not even supported me..

What to do..They are not supporting me in any manner..
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Muskaan Ahuja

Replied 5 years ago

I WANT TO TAKE DIVORCE BUT I AM IN A DIFFICULT SITUATION..
PLEASE READ MY SITUATION..
Moreover, i want to take advice or legal advice that my mother in law is operated before 10 days..now she is in bed..problem is now my parents saying that " You should take care of your mother in law" until she completely fine.. NOW I JUST NEED AN ADVICE THAT WHAT SHOULD I DO.. I JUST SUFFOCATING HERE BECAUSE I TOLERATING ALL THIS AND MY MOTHER IN LAW IS HOSPITALIZED..WHAT SHOULD I DO? PLEASE TELL ME LEGAL OPINION ...? PLEASE SUGGEST ME MY MAIN POINT IS THAT PARENTS ARE NOT SUPPORTING ME IN THIS MATTER..THEY SAID TO CONTINUE MY MARRAIGE AS THINGS ARE NORMAL in every marraige.. My mother and father both are not supporting me....

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sistla ramakrishna

Responded 5 years ago

A.you should inform the same to your elders and well wishers. Try to convince him lay strategy and plan to spend much time of your husband with you. Take him to psychotherapist for de addition of drinking habit. If you can change him then he may come with you to set up separate family. Mobilize him to make happy home by setting up separate family. You must chalk out plans and try to plan with whom he will convince and get set up separate family.
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Muskaan Ahuja

Replied 5 years ago

I WANT TO TAKE DIVORCE BUT I AM IN A DIFFICULT SITUATION..
PLEASE READ MY SITUATION..
Moreover, i want to take advice or legal advice that my mother in law is operated before 10 days..now she is in bed..problem is now my parents saying that " You should take care of your mother in law" until she completely fine.. NOW I JUST NEED AN ADVICE THAT WHAT SHOULD I DO.. I JUST SUFFOCATING HERE BECAUSE I TOLERATING ALL THIS AND MY MOTHER IN LAW IS HOSPITALIZED..WHAT SHOULD I DO? PLEASE TELL ME LEGAL OPINION ...? PLEASE SUGGEST ME MY MAIN POINT IS THAT PARENTS ARE NOT SUPPORTING ME IN THIS MATTER..THEY SAID TO CONTINUE MY MARRAIGE AS THINGS ARE NORMAL in every marraige.. My mother and father both are not supporting me....

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Ashutosh & Co

Responded 5 years ago

A.Yes u can take divorce from ur husband for more advice contact us
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Muskaan Ahuja

Replied 5 years ago

I WANT TO TAKE DIVORCE BUT I AM IN A DIFFICULT SITUATION..
PLEASE READ MY SITUATION..
Moreover, i want to take advice or legal advice that my mother in law is operated before 10 days..now she is in bed..problem is now my parents saying that " You should take care of your mother in law" until she completely fine.. NOW I JUST NEED AN ADVICE THAT WHAT SHOULD I DO.. I JUST SUFFOCATING HERE BECAUSE I TOLERATING ALL THIS AND MY MOTHER IN LAW IS HOSPITALIZED..WHAT SHOULD I DO? PLEASE TELL ME LEGAL OPINION ...? PLEASE SUGGEST ME MY MAIN POINT IS THAT PARENTS ARE NOT SUPPORTING ME IN THIS MATTER..THEY SAID TO CONTINUE MY MARRAIGE AS THINGS ARE NORMAL in every marraige.. My mother and father both are not supporting me....

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