Wife left husband 1 yrs and 8 months back and not willing to return
5 years ago
Hello All,
I need a help with a valuable suggestion
I’ve been married for past 8 years, my wife’s family is dominating with a lawyer father, police uncle, doctor grandpa background. We were blessed with a baby girl 4 years back, but my wife never brought her to Bangalore, baby has been with my in-laws in Kakinada (Andhra Pradesh, AP) so we used to up and down to see her every quarter. we used to have wear and tear, when ever there’s any quarrel immediately my wife alerts her mom so slowly it created major differences and she left to her hometown, few months back one fine evening she called & said she got a job in Tirupati and need house hold items, so she came with packers and movers, threatened me and taken away all the house hold items since then she never returned. its been past 1 yrs. and 8 months we reached their family multiple ways, but they have never responded amicably. Finally, 2 months back they agreed, arranged a meeting with my wife but she became even more stubborn in saying that she’s NOT interested to live with me anymore, if we force she threatened like will suicide. I’ve never hurt her with any intention, its only her negative attitude and her very supporting family lead us to this situation. I’ve not taken single paisa dowry, I’ve bought a car and we went on multiple trips, I used to take her to all new Telugu movies, I used to gift her BDays, every week we used to go restaurants, for baby also I used to buy many toys/cloths and sent through online or personally. But still she doesn’t know what she wants. I live in Bangalore, wife lives in Tirupati, Baby is in Kakinada. Now, they are neither encouraging for any open discussions nor for settlements, they are not giving my wife’s address as well. She has blocked my number, blocked whatsapp, blocked facebook so no communication at all so what should I do?
Deepak Yashwantrao Bade
Responded 5 years ago
Rajender Prasad
Responded 5 years ago
Sayaree Ganguly
Responded 5 years ago
You can file a suit under the restitution of conjugal rights against your wife , at the same time you should also file a general diary against your wife for giving such suicidal threats just to keep yourself on the safe side.
Rameshwar Dadhe
Responded 5 years ago
Do you like to eat the cake or count the holes in it?
If you want to eat the cake...then please do as I and other Advocates have already stated.
First file the RCR. In any case you it has to be settled in the Court of Law.Divorce is the only solution your wife is looking at it although she has not stated in so many words.
For other questions talk to a local lawyer who will explain you in local language.
Shanti Ranjan Behera,
Advocate
There is a saying in English " One flower does not make a garland". You have not mentioned the educational back ground of your wife .She also lost 8 years of her working life.The baby is 4 years old and she has to go to a good school.Taking all these things in to consideration talk to your wife directly or through a friend which could be possible.After talking to her, you take the decision.
1.If the problem is resolved it is fine.Otherwise file a case for RCR.
2.Please remember no body is above law.If you are right, your lawyer Father in law can not do anything.
Shanti Ranjan Behera, Advocate
You just file some cases against her like R C R and child custody to protect yourself
Rameshwar Dadhe
Responded 5 years ago
Vishwabandhu
Responded 5 years ago