Divorce

5 years ago

I got married 2 years back n went to USA with husband... It was an arranged marriage n we just met once... Was just connected over phone... I felt he was the right guy for me as we had a lot of talks when we met... But after I went to USA n started living with him I realized that I'm not compatible with him.. There arised differences in opinion n we used to have fights over almost every thing... I hated the way he used to speak n hence a bad image of him was painted in my mind... It became impossible for me to indulge in sex with him as a result of these differences n clashes... I still tried to adjust but faced difficulties.... We hardly used to talk because of these differences n clashes. It became boring. The differences became prominent day by day.... After one year I came back to India to meet my parents... My husband eventually had problems with me being too involved with my family n started poking me for everything... He started criticizing me... I came for two months as I was missing my parents as I hardly had time with them after my marriage... Due to some visa issues I had to go earlier but I refused as I was unable to adjust with the situation n I was diagnosed with depression because of all d clashes.... At that time my uncle who was irritated with me refusing to go back because he was scared that her daughter may face problems in getting married, took my phone forcibly n abused me verbally. He used slangs. He verbally abused my friends who called me that day accusing them of breaking my marriage... Seeing all these I agreed to go back unwillingly.. My friends cut off all ties with me after all these as they have their family....
After two years when I came back finally... I had a fight with my in laws n husband regarding staying at my parents home... I felt insulted.... Hence I came back home.. My family members got irritated n stopped talking with me... I decided to get a job as I didn't wanted to be a burden for my parents... Iwas on h4 visa in USA n hence couldn't do a job)... I went for an interview n immediately got a job... When I came back home I was asked to go back to my in laws as they have a marriage n they won't be able to give answers to their family... I refused but my uncle again started verbally abusing me... Using the cheapest of slangs.. He accused me of having affair with some other guy which is very insulting n untrue... He again took my phone n forced me to give password but I refused as I was scared he may do the same thing again especially with the hr who called me that day n accuse her which may affect my job life.... He restricted me from going out n didnt let me do the job... My parents couldn't speak a word in front of him.... They are not letting me go out or do a job... That person(uncle) always says bad words about me, my mom said.... I have to go to my in-laws forcibly... What can I do n what steps can I take against my uncle as he is too much now....