Mental torture by husband and his family

5 years ago

I was married in March 2018, just a week of marriage, my husband asked for money to pay his debts. Later we went on honeymoon, one of his friends(girl) kept calling us to get regular updates. She had been troubling us since the time we got married. When I asked her to get out of our lives, she asked me who came first into my husband's life. I do not have proofs for these, but husband nor his family did anything against her. Infact they said they won't stop talking to her. Later once we moved to a new house, my husband and his family expected my family to buy all the things needed for a new house, like TV, fridge, sofa etc. This wasn't specifically mentioned to my family by their family. But my mom had given an old sofa set and cot which was already at parent's place. My husband and his family have mentally troubled me so much regarding this issue. 3 months of our marriage and same issue went on. Later in July, my husband flew to France on work permit. The torture about what my mom didn't give continued and he stopped talking to me for 2 months, never answered my calls either. Once I made a statement " what more are you expecting my mom to give?". This they found it very insulting, due to which they made me quit my job and move to my husband's town, Rajahmundry. My husband had taken a lot of money from me from the day we got married and he never gave me a penny. After I quit my job, we had a loan to pay off, when I asked him to send money to pay off, he asked me to stop my mutual funds and pay it off. That was the only thing left for myself. He felt offended because I didn't give him the money he asked me. So I asked him to return the money that I gave him, he felt offended again and his mother returned the money while I was at his native. His mother made a statement that I was a worst match for them and they made a mistake marrying me. Now it's been 11+ months that we are married, we have hardly lived 3 months together, and during the rest of the tenure, he hardly spoke to me for 3-4 months. He never calls when all these issues were going on, it's always me who calls. Now he doesn't want to process my Visa. I came off to my parent's place. I was badly insulted by him and his family. He says he would process my Visa only if I go back to his native again. My marriage certificate had my name printed incorrectly, for which they are taking months to rectify. I feel his family is delaying the process intentionally. Please advice what to do next. I am completely heart broken, I do not a have job either now.