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posted 5 months ago

Q.Mental torture by husband and his family
I was married in March 2018, just a week of marriage, my husband asked for money to pay his debts. Later we went on honeymoon, one of his friends(girl) kept calling us to get regular updates. She had been troubling us since the time we got married. When I asked her to get out of our lives, she asked me who came first into my husband's life. I do not have proofs for these, but husband nor his family did anything against her. Infact they said they won't stop talking to her. Later once we moved to a new house, my husband and his family expected my family to buy all the things needed for a new house, like TV, fridge, sofa etc. This wasn't specifically mentioned to my family by their family. But my mom had given an old sofa set and cot which was already at parent's place. My husband and his family have mentally troubled me so much regarding this issue. 3 months of our marriage and same issue went on. Later in July, my husband flew to France on work permit. The torture about what my mom didn't give continued and he stopped talking to me for 2 months, never answered my calls either. Once I made a statement " what more are you expecting my mom to give?". This they found it very insulting, due to which they made me quit my job and move to my husband's town, Rajahmundry. My husband had taken a lot of money from me from the day we got married and he never gave me a penny. After I quit my job, we had a loan to pay off, when I asked him to send money to pay off, he asked me to stop my mutual funds and pay it off. That was the only thing left for myself. He felt offended because I didn't give him the money he asked me. So I asked him to return the money that I gave him, he felt offended again and his mother returned the money while I was at his native. His mother made a statement that I was a worst match for them and they made a mistake marrying me. Now it's been 11+ months that we are married, we have hardly lived 3 months together, and during the rest of the tenure, he hardly spoke to me for 3-4 months. He never calls when all these issues were going on, it's always me who calls. Now he doesn't want to process my Visa. I came off to my parent's place. I was badly insulted by him and his family. He says he would process my Visa only if I go back to his native again. My marriage certificate had my name printed incorrectly, for which they are taking months to rectify. I feel his family is delaying the process intentionally. Please advice what to do next. I am completely heart broken, I do not a have job either now.

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Shreyash Mohta

Experience: 1 Year(s)

Responded 5 months ago

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A. ) File a Domestic Violence Case under section 12 of the PWDV Act. Immediately.
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Kishan Dutt Kalaskar Retired Judge

Experience: 33 Year(s)

Responded 5 months ago

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A. ) Dear Madam,
To bring him and his family members to terms you have to file number of cases and you may just immediately file DV case seeking following reliefs.
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PRAYER
HENCE THE APPLICANT HUMBLY PRAYS
1. to take cognizance for the offence punishable u/s 498A IPC and punish Respondent1 to 3 as per law and extend police protection to the deponent,
2. Pass orders u/s 19, based upon S.17, granting separate residence for herself and her three children at a monthly rent of Rs. 20,000/- and advance of Rs. 5,00,000/-.
3. Pass orders u/s 18, in totality against Respondent1 to 3,
4. Pass orders u/s 20(i) granting Rs.25,000/- per month as maintenance for applicant and maintenance at the rate of Rs. 5,000/- each per month to her three children.
5. Pass orders granting Rs. 5,00,000/- for setting up house hold requirements, in granted residence, to make it livable, as the applicant cannot return to the house of Respondent1 as he is residing in the house of respondent No. 3, which is legally prohibited,
6. Pass orders granting litigation expenses of Rs.1,00,000/- as the applicant made to wander from pillar to post for getting legal aid to attend the Hon’ble Court, whereas, the Respondent1 falsely filed Divorce Petition.
7. The applicant also filed interim application supported by affidavit u/s 23(1) and (2) of D.V.Act,
8. That any other order/s, this Hon’ble Court deems fit, to meet the ends of justice, be passed.

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Suneel Moudgil

Experience: 15 Year(s)

Responded 5 months ago

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A. ) you didn't mention what you want?
anyway, from the facts its almost clear that there are extremely low chances of your settlement with your husband, I suggest you, initiate legal action against them by lodging a police complaint/Domestic Violence/maintenance case.
do you have any kids?

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Anonymous

Replied 5 months ago

He is asking me to wait until he is back from France, and he isn't saying when he is going to come back. Not sure how long this wait is going to be. I have lost a good pay job.

No, I do not have kids yet. I hadn't filed a case so far due to family pressures, hoping that problems would be solved and it might affect our relationship later.

I wasn't really sure how to take this further and what to do, which is why I posted for suggestions here.

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Suneel Moudgil

Experience: 15 Year(s)

Replied 5 months ago

I advise you to fix your wait period by talking with your husband/in-laws,
waiting for an indefinite period doesn't make any sense,
sometimes we need to be harsh and it's for our benefit
call/mail me for a detailed discussion

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