Domestic voilence
4 years ago
It's 1 and half year of my marriage it was love cum arrange marriage my in-laws was against of marriage but me and my husband did the Arya samaj marriage first which completed now 2 years. My husband just after one month of marriage started physical abuse for rubbish reasons for not spending good money on marriage or for upsetting his parents. I somehow tried to adjust but every second month his family start creating problems for me and provoke my husband to beat me they all become a team and they put me in isolation,mental depression so I used to come back home I only stayed few months at my in laws home after marriage they always instigate me provoke me by abusing and by beating, lie a lot and manipulate my husband as it extremes and when I started shouting they smartly make my videos as if I go for domestic voilence they will have something to show after last fight I came home it's been four months neither my husband's calling for reconciliation nor divorce he said he will not divorce I have to file it once I do that he'll instant gets agree to it. His family plays a vital role in his negative mind set for me. I also do have pictures of my bruises and recordings which I somehow made in that situations when I saw them collecting evidences I smelled something bad going to happen. One side my husband take me to trips for hangouts front of frnds and his family also treats me well front of society and relatives but at back they play very bad every of my relative used to think they are very sweet that celebrating my anniversary and husband taking me to trips but it's all a drama, and by every passing day my mental condition is getting worse what options do I have..?
Shreyash Mohta
Responded 4 years ago
You may take appropriate legal action under different enactments.
Suneel Moudgil
Responded 4 years ago
if you want to rejoin matrimonial knot, then,
try to settle the matter amicably with your husband involving elders/relatives/friends etc and start afresh, and if, failed, file Restitution of conjugal rights petition in the Court,
and,
if you want to terminate the matrimonial knot, then,
try to settle the matter amicably with your husband involving elders/relatives/friends etc and go for Mutual Consent Divorce which will be decided in 6-18 months, and you both will be free to live life with your wish,
if failed, you are advised to file/claim
498a complaint (for causing mental, emotional, physical and monetary abuse, etc)
Domestic Violence case (for causing mental, emotional, physical and monetary abuse, etc)
you have rights to claim residence, protection, compensation, etc
maintenance,
if you do not want to opt the divorce presently, you can ask for judicial separation also,
Call/mail for a detailed discussion/understanding
Rameshwar Dadhe
Responded 4 years ago