Marital life issues
4 years ago
Hello Sir/Mam,
Kindly me help me with your valuable suggestions.
I'm here to get a suggestion for one of my cousin.
My sister marriage was love marriage through registration.
Before doing this they made multiple attempts to convence there families but her husband family was not ok to accept there relationship they said they are not ok by comparing our economic standards instead of putting this fact upfront they said jatakas didn't match and my sister may turn unlucky for there family.
After they got married his mother kept blackmailing his son by saying if his wife comes to his house she will leave the house or commit suicide. Intially my sisters husband used to be good towards my sisters now he is totally influenced by his parents family.
Unfortunately they have not setup family as they are working in different locations her husband kept saying he will transfer to her location but he is just taking time.Her husband is totally in his parents clutches now he don't want to setup family until and unless his parents are ok.In reality his parents are playing mind games when my sisters family calls to his family they are saying they left his son and they are not going to guide him regarding his marital life.
They influenced him totally and every week he visits his home town and hear his parents guidance and totally ignoring my sister.
They have emotionally influenced him and said they will not give property if he lives with my sister
Also made him to take financial responsibilities for his family(Parents house) so that he will not establish his own family with my sister being in financial crisis
His complete family(Mom dad sister in law uncles and grand father) has made my sister struggle in the due course my sister lost her job ,health and also her unborn baby.
My sister loves her husband so much she want to live with her husband she is not ready for divorce .kindly suggest.
Biggest challenge for my sister is his family is from judicial department.
Your sister has multiple choices to get her husband or teach him a lesson. She may file DV case at the first instance.
Abhishek Taneja
Responded 4 years ago
And can claim maintenance under Hindu adoptions and maintenance act (this can be claimed while living or w/o living with husband).
The main thing is first try by way of mediations with help of some relatives or anybody having hold on him.
RCR is the safest option.
Husband can also claim his share of property under Hindu succession act.
BIR ABHIMANYU KUMAR
Responded 4 years ago