Legal advice on accommodation and divorce
My husband and his family sent me and son out of their house for his sister and family ego. We stayed together so far because of my efforts and he never shown interest in living with me. He doesn't like me to be involved in any family or financial matters. As he working far from native it took me 3 months to cry and to take me there with him. His whole family expects me to be a silent maid for his family but when in reality facing my needs in life they are disappointed as they couldn't dominate me. They didn't even gave me a proper room to stay even though he built the home with housing loan just a year ago. It's all for his parents and sister and I was given a room on second floor and should come down for everything. Because of the stress i underwent a miscarriage and hypothyroidism too. I came to know he was flirting with women and after lot of fight he stopped such behavior but used to say often as a sacrifice. During pregnancy and After my son's birth his family gave me lot of emotional torture by leaving me uninformed for every possible things. His sister during pregnancy and baby shower never did any rituals for me saying others that I would not allow. When my son born she looked him and left which I came to know after 5 days. My in laws and husband on her side says she did right and I don't like her so if she sees me I would get health issues. But actually my mother in law too saw me being ok and she feared that my husband would separate from them as son born. He was not much happy with me because of their manipulation on him. Later when we 3 as family went Chennai were I was given silent treatment saying I separated the whole family. He always supports his sister and never talks to me and whenever we come to native he somehow make issue leaving me at my parents home and leaves to discuss with his family so I won't know when I will return. It's always he experiment my behavior what i do if he leaves. I used to swear at his whole family for treating me this way and we both end beating each other. He even beats me for his gf who msg without giving me any explanation he punches on my face and it's always fight in front of kid. In this 2 years I became so lost control swearing at him as I was left lonely for years by him and his family totally avoiding me. Before the past wedding day he never spoke to me and I was crying till next evening and he not cared much and called his family to blame about me. I in anger took the phone sweared at his sister. So as a revenge this time he and his family planned sent me out. He talking to the girls for whom he hit me on face and broke my fingers with which I managed to do chores at home alone. He accepted that he was talking to her in front of my parents but instead of questioning him they beat me and made him go away to continue enjoying. I don't want to live with anyone and i need a separate home for me and my son. Is there any way to get maintenance and accommodation legally. I don't want him to leave looking laughing at me. I'm pursuing pg so I need some peace as well as for my son's future
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