Contested divorce

I had filed for contested divorce on 2024 and husband had filed section 9 against me in same court after receiving divorce first notice still the proceeding are going on, for 1 year my husband and family did not appear for any hearings among both but suddenly when divorce was under ex party he came and ask for meeting kids (2 kids 8 and 6 year son's).We had mediation which was unsettled. And since kids birth he had not taken any responsibility for kids expenses till now. He is an alcoholic and abusive violent person due to which i left him. He used to send me and kids to his or my parents house to run away from expenses. His day starts and end with alcohol, I was married in 2015 since then I had tried to change his behavior lot but it worsen when i got first pregnancy. I adjust with situation in hope he will change some day for my parents and kids sake. during and after my pregnancy period and he started torturing me more and abusing me physically and verbally. He had not even taken my medical expenses during pregnancy for first i was working and second as i left job to take care of kid he send me to my house and parents had paid hospital bill and other expenses. He said he married me for just physical relation and in a hope that I will take care of his parents, because he was not interested to work and take responsibility, he said he wont take care of children by giving excuses like my parents are insulting him. or i am not fulfilling his wish. every night me and children lived on fear, he used to torture us He just like to spend days at home drinking, even though he was working for corporates with good salary, h he had loan of lakhs and also mortgaged my and kids gold. his parents also support him they started taking away my kids from me and ask to go work abroad, they will take care of children, i can find some one there. but i have to provide monthly expense for my kids so that my husband and parents can control and make me depend on them showing my kids. Now i don't want to give him visitation right because i know husband and mother in law will behave nicely with kids until they get kids trust and after that they will again start threatening me in kids name, and with kids trust they will come to stay with me as they don't have their own house anywhere and no one to take their responsibility they were just using me to fulfill their needs by saying it's for my children. They will do these only to avoid giving me my dowry gold and money back and drag the divorce case as long as possible. And also at present the advocate who is fighting for them was my advocate earlier, i filed first divorce and DV on 2023 with her but dont know what talk happen between my first advocate and husband and in laws. My first advocate she did not file my case in court and said that court proceeding take time, when i started searching online and taken 2nd advice i came to know she did not filed my case because my in laws and husband ask her to do so and this was dragged till feb 2024. And when i question her, she said my husband asked for compromise so i withdrawn from her with filed divorce with another advocate. And now she is fighting for my husband against me. The evidence and proof given she shared that with my in laws and husband. she knows that my parents was against this marriage and now even though i am staying with my parents they dont support me, instead my parents ton me of my marriage decision and spending their life saving in my marriage and also i am leaving my kids at day care full day when i am going to office for 6 days. my mother is not ready to take care of my children due to my husband and inlaws had tortured and insulted my parents and relatives many times and asked my parents to stay away from my children when i was staying with in laws. But in laws and husband wants gift and money from my parents occasionally whenever i am visiting them, if not mother in law and husband start insulting my parents. Whenever i visit my parents with children mother in law and husband start bothering and torturing my parents till i retuned back. Due to this my family want me to stay separately at different house with my children. Neither my parents take any money or house expense from me. My mother in law knows that doing this my parents won't support me and not take care of kids. Mother in law and husband just use me and my money showing kids and avoid cases, because they know they had done wrong. While staying with my husband he used to force me for physical and torture or insult me when i ignore and started showing that anger on children also. since my marriage 3 to 4 times i had left my husband house and came to my parents. but every time husband and mother in law say he had changed, and some days they both behave nicely with me and children and after some time start showing their true nature. I dont want to go back to him and avoid complete contact between him and kids. he will used that as opportunity to come with us. Due to his alcoholic behaving he is not stable in any job.please advice me what should i do now, as i dont want this case to be dragged long and allow visitation or any rights of kid s to them.