Mental torture by husband Mental torture by husband

4 years ago

I got married last year. My husband is working in Europe. He was good to me initially and after 3 months took me to his place in new country but suddenly his behaviour began to change and started torturing me with his words. He bagan to hate me in just few days. He never allowed me to touch his fone. One day we told me that he want divorce. Then l decided to move back to India. He told me that he is sorry for his words and he will come after 6 months to India permanently but in 6months he never tried to contact me infact l tried 1000 calls and he hardly picked any. He makes call everyday to his parents. He told me to join job where l was working before marriage because he says l am a burden. So l have to stay at my parents place. He has no plans to come back and doesn't even talk to me. someone told me he has an affair. His family is trying to be sweet to me sometimes and l think they are trying to avoid dowry case as they have already taken and my father is still paying debts. They asked for car which my father couldn't afford but still gave.lts been more than 11 months of marriage l think he is waiting for one year to complete so that he could file a case of divorce. I still want this relationship to work but there is lot of harrasment as we have spend a lot as per their demands. He is not responding to my calls and my parents. His parents try to convince that he will come. I don't know what to do.l have been sincere to him and he has no reason to divorce me but he stopped responding. I want things to settle. I want to bring this information to police's notice so that he doesn't put false allegations against me.

Kishan Dutt Kalaskar

Responded 4 years ago

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A.Dear Madam,
You may bring him to terms provided you file different types of cases against him. As of first step you may file DV case seeking following reliefs.
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HENCE THE APPLICANT HUMBLY PRAYS
1. to take cognizance for the offence punishable u/s 498A IPC and punish Respondent1 to 3 as per law and extend police protection to the deponent,
2. Pass orders u/s 19, based upon S.17, granting separate residence for herself and her three children at a monthly rent of Rs. 20,000/- and advance of Rs. 5,00,000/-.
3. Pass orders u/s 18, in totality against Respondent1 to 3,
4. Pass orders u/s 20(i) granting Rs.25,000/- per month as maintenance for applicant and maintenance at the rate of Rs. 5,000/- each per month to her three children.
5. Pass orders granting Rs. 5,00,000/- for setting up house hold requirements, in granted residence, to make it livable, as the applicant cannot return to the house of Respondent1 as he is residing in the house of respondent No. 3, which is legally prohibited,
6. Pass orders granting litigation expenses of Rs.1,00,000/- as the applicant made to wander from pillar to post for getting legal aid to attend the Hon’ble Court, whereas, the Respondent1 falsely filed Divorce Petition.
7. The applicant also filed interim application supported by affidavit u/s 23(1) and (2) of D.V.Act,
8. That any other order/s, this Hon’ble Court deems fit, to meet the ends of justice, be passed.



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Jitender kumar Dawla

Responded 4 years ago

A.Good morning ma'am.

If you are living at your parent's home that means you are living seperated from your husband.that is also a valid gorund griund for divorce.. may be its your husband plan.
kindly start living at your In-law's house...Because it means that your living in husband home .....If your husband not responding your calls/messages it also means that may be he dont want to come again.. Take your n try to contact him but at last if he not answered then only Way is to file a court case against him..


He definetly contact to their parents. If you start living at his home in india then you can get info. about him
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