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4 years ago

Hi. After 9 years of marriage and having 2 sons my husband wants to divorce me. He is kept saying this many times during every querral. Ours is love marriage and their parents did not agreed. And every time his mother use to put me down and bring up querral for small things. I use to earn more than him and use to give almost entire my pay. I have transaction details too. He forced me to leave my job,after that I it was hell. He gave one talaq too. I believe he is not taking this decision by his own. I am demanding to keep me in seperate home. To which he is not agreeing. I am undergone mental torture alot. I want to know what basis I can seek legal help. I am really afraid of loosing my marriage.

Kishan Dutt Kalaskar

Responded 4 years ago

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A.Dear Madam,
Please file DV case seeking following relief.
PRAYER
HENCE THE APPLICANT HUMBLY PRAYS
1. to take cognizance for the offence punishable u/s 498A IPC and punish Respondent1 to 3 as per law and extend police protection to the deponent,
2. Pass orders u/s 19, based upon S.17, granting separate residence for herself and her three children at a monthly rent of Rs. 20,000/- and advance of Rs. 5,00,000/-.
3. Pass orders u/s 18, in totality against Respondent1 to 3,
4. Pass orders u/s 20(i) granting Rs.25,000/- per month as maintenance for applicant and maintenance at the rate of Rs. 5,000/- each per month to her three children.
5. Pass orders granting Rs. 5,00,000/- for setting up house hold requirements, in granted residence, to make it livable, as the applicant cannot return to the house of Respondent1 as he is residing in the house of respondent No. 3, which is legally prohibited,
6. Pass orders granting litigation expenses of Rs.1,00,000/- as the applicant made to wander from pillar to post for getting legal aid to attend the Hon’ble Court, whereas, the Respondent1 falsely filed Divorce Petition.
7. The applicant also filed interim application supported by affidavit u/s 23(1) and (2) of D.V.Act,
8. That any other order/s, this Hon’ble Court deems fit, to meet the ends of justice, be passed.

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Suneel Moudgil

Responded 4 years ago

A.if you want to remain in the matrimonial relationship, then,
try to settle the matter amicably with your husband involving elders/relatives/friends etc and start afresh, and if, failed, file Restitution of conjugal rights petition in the Court,
and,
if you want to terminate the matrimonial knot, then,
try to settle the matter amicably with your husband involving elders/relatives/friends etc and go for Mutual Consent Divorce which will be decided in 6-18 months, and you both will be free to live life with your wish,
don't forget to draft an MOU before approaching Mutual Divorce, which is the most essential and important part of a Divorce case,
some basic points to keep in mind and put in writing through an MOU before filing the petition for mutual consent divorce are custody of kids, distribution of assets (movable/immovable), quash/withdraw of pending litigation if any, Maintenance (present/future), Alimony, mode and time of making the payment, future litigation, etc.
if failed, you are advised to file/claim
498a complaint (for causing mental, emotional, physical and monetary abuse, etc)
Domestic Violence case (for causing mental, emotional, physical and monetary abuse, etc)
you have rights to claim residence, protection, compensation, etc
you can also claim maintenance for the kids, (children are the joint responsibility of husband and wife)
Call/mail for a detailed discussion/understanding
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Sandeep Pingale

Responded 4 years ago

A.You can file Domestic Violence application in court for harassment done by him.And also claim maintenance, separate residence, protection from harassment etc in that application.
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