Marriage Problem
4 years ago
Dear Sir/Madam,
I got marriage on 13/02/2019. After marriage small small things me we had fight with my husband. within 2 month we got separated. I took my stree-dhan jo mere paremts ne muje diya tha on marriage time. & Husband ne uska gold le liya mangal-sutra & my reckless & all. After that i went to counselor then i decided i want my marriage life back. but husband & in-laws ne allow nahi kiya. 6 months i apologized without my mistake. My parets also apologized. as hum ladki wale hai. & settlement karna tha to uno ne sab mujse legal paper me written liya. If future me esa kuch huva to i will be responsible for anything & muje without any money divorce lena padega. on 16 August we started our marriage life. But after 1 week husband & his family started harassing me. they treated me like maid. No one was talking with me. I was alone there. My husband was forcing me physical as well. Muje khana nahi dete the. They don't allow me to go out. I was not allowed to on Fan, Light anything. My husband isCA. even though he was not doing job. He is still at home. on 6 Nov 2019 i acme to my mon house for my brother birthday. So husband said stay there till you want u comein 2021-22. Usko koi farak nahi padta, ,me usake sath rahu ya na rahu. when i was mom home i msg & called him . But he never replied to my calls msg anything. i went there aging, on 29 Dec 2019, ghar me enter karte hi his whole family mere sath jagda kiya. I wanted to discuss my husband butmuje bat nahi karne diya. He is not earning anything. so i thought i should start Job. So i told him i will do job. bcz he isn't earning & muje 10 rs b use karne ke liye nai deta tha. so i wake up early morning & i made breakfast for his family i have done homework & all. then i told politely to Husband that m going office. again usne morning me jagda kiya. he started shouting at me. he yaha se nikal ja vapasa kabhi mat aana. my Devar ne mera mobile le liya. muje physical harassed kiya. & dadi ne slap me Then i went to police station. I wrote NC. & usne mere against wrong NC likhaya. k i slap him. But mene esa kuch b nahi kiya. evening me vapasa ghar gai to he didnt open door. muje ghar me aane nahi diya. Then i came to my mos house with little cloth.
Now he want divorce to me. He is manipulating me my written. as per my written he will not give any money. But mene kuch galat nahi kiya. ye sab uska plan tha pehle written lenea & then muje harassement karke nikal dene ka. so usko kuch alimony nahi dena. but now i want justice. what should i do? Please help me
Suneel Moudgil
Responded 4 years ago
try to settle the matter amicably with your husband involving elders/relatives/friends etc and go for Mutual Consent Divorce which will be decided in 6-18 months, and you both will be free to live life with your wish,
don't forget to draft an MOU before approaching Mutual Divorce, which is the most essential and important part of a Divorce case,
some basic points to keep in mind and put in writing through an MOU before filing the petition for mutual consent divorce are custody of kids, distribution of assets (movable/immovable), quash/withdraw of pending litigation if any, Maintenance (present/future), Alimony, mode and time of making the payment, streedhan, future litigation, etc.
if failed, you are advised to file/claim
498a complaint against husband/in-laws (for causing mental, emotional, physical and monetary abuse, etc)
Domestic Violence case (for causing mental, emotional, physical and monetary abuse, etc)
you have rights to claim residence, protection, compensation, maintenance, etc
if you do not want to opt the divorce presently, you can ask for judicial separation also,
your written submission that you will take divorce without money has no value in the eyes of law, engage a good counsel he/she will tackle with those papers,
Call/mail for a detailed discussion/understanding
You can file multiple cases to bring your husband under control.
Contact through the administrators of this website.
Sandeep Pingale
Responded 4 years ago
And also you can file domestic violence application in court for getting maintenance,shared house and protection from their harassment.
ARSHAD ALI ZAIDI ADVOCATE
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nupur mittal
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Rajasekhar Chowdary.V
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Rajeev Srivastava
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Kavery Anand
Responded 4 years ago
And give statement that by force they have taken Ur statement in writing and after taking in writing they sent u out of the matrimonial house..this is all pre-planned .. to send u out of the house with out giving Alimony OR Maintence..
File case immediately.