Divorce and Cheating case
4 years ago
I am a working professional. My Husband , He always concerned about his happiness and very selfish person. I left my job which was very decent job. shifted from chennai to bangalore for his sake. The moment i left my job his attitude changed completely. I lost my income for a year. And after year break i got into job .During that one year he sometimes did verbal abuse and threatened me with physical abuse. Even i work really long hours he used to demand to cook three times a day if i don't meet his demand he used to call my parents and siblings even cousins to tell this that i am not cooking. Last year he decided to buy a flat i paid half in down payment and we both took joint loan and me primary holder . I contributed my share . He used to pay house interest and i paid all interior work. At the time of registration he went behind my back to builder ask them to register property only on his name. Builder called me and informed me to send no objection mail to register on his name only then they will register. I had no clue about this. when i confronted he asked me to talk to his father. They both argued with me and insisted me to send no objection mail to Builder. So i just signed away but atleast expected change in his behaviour. I stayed a month too atleast he will realise his mistake and change his behaviour but it went opposite way. So i left house ( my father came and tried to settle and he said i have nothing to do with your daughter you can take her). He cheated me financially and i lost more than 15 lacs income because of this marriage. And he went to some of my relatives home along with his father informed them that because of property i left and came. which is not true at all after my mail to builder they were able to register property on his name. I am going through lot of stress as they were making false allegations and defamation. I lost income for an year + Cheating + Defamation. How can i proceed ? Could you please help me with this ?
Suneel Moudgil
Responded 4 years ago
try to settle the matter amicably with your husband involving elders/relatives/friends etc and start afresh, and if, failed, file Restitution of conjugal rights petition in the Court,
and,
if you want to terminate the matrimonial knot, then,
try to settle the matter amicably with your husband involving elders/relatives/friends etc and go for Mutual Consent Divorce which will be decided in 6-18 months, and you both will be free to live life with your wish,
don't forget to draft an MOU before approaching Mutual Divorce, which is the most essential and important part of a Divorce case,
some basic points to keep in mind and put in writing through an MOU before filing the petition for mutual consent divorce are custody of kids, distribution of assets (movable/immovable), quash/withdraw of pending litigation if any, Maintenance (present/future), Alimony, mode and time of making the payment, streedhan, future litigation, etc.
if failed, you are advised to file/claim
498a complaint (for causing mental, emotional, physical and monetary abuse, etc)
Domestic Violence case (for causing mental, emotional, physical and monetary abuse, etc)
you have rights to claim residence, protection, compensation, maintenance, etc
if you do not want to opt the divorce presently, you can ask for judicial separation also,
Call/mail for a detailed discussion/understanding
Immediately lodge an F.IR. against him . File a case mentioning the same and also make his father i.e your father -in-law a party too.
It would be a suggestion to file a maintenance , a divorce along with the other cases.
Thank you