tourcher and forced marriage tourcher and forced marriage

5 years ago

i'm 17 yrs and 8 months old, my parents and family are forcing me to marry someone, i don't like. i told them i like someone else, but they said his cast is different, so you have to marry from our cast only. and when i dis agree they beat me and also dosen't give me anything to eat. i want to leave the house and go to the person whom i want to marry, his family is ready and he is also ready, but he says i have to wait till 18.what happens if i leave my house and stay with my frnds and after 4 month when i'm 18, i marry him. what will i do if my family files missing complain and give his name in court.please help. it's very urgent.

Prabhakara S K Shetty

Responded 5 years ago

View All Answers
A.Legally speaking, if you leave home now your parents may file a missing complaint and may bring you home. Also, now you can refuse to marry as you are under aged, and once you are eighteen, you are free to marry anyone you like. This apart, neither your parents nor you seem to be looking for a life of your own by continuing your education. What the family of some one that you like intend you at such young age to become ? If you marry now certainly your education will come to an end and you will end up doing their household work only. But if you tell your parents to allow you to continue your education and marry afterwards, your may have a better future.
Helpful
Helpful
Share

Post Your Matter Post Your Matter

Talk to a Lawyer Talk to a Lawyer

Ask a question Ask a question

Vidhi Samaadhaan Vidhi Samaadhaan

Suneel Moudgil

Responded 5 years ago

A.you are too young for marriage, however the legal age for marriage is 18 but one should marry once he/she completes his study and stable his/her career,
you should follow your parents' advise and should concentrate on your studies.

if you go to the house of the boy, whom you like, you will involve him and his complete family in heavy trouble.
Helpful
Helpful
Share

Post Your Matter Post Your Matter

Talk to a Lawyer Talk to a Lawyer

Ask a question Ask a question

Vidhi Samaadhaan Vidhi Samaadhaan

prasad

Responded 5 years ago

A.dear client if u leave yr house and start to live with yr love then yr parents can file case off kidnapping against him and he will fall in trouble. approach to yr nearest police station and file complaint against yr family for forceful marriage immediately. for any legal help call me

Adv Prasad Patil

Pune
Helpful
Helpful
Share

Post Your Matter Post Your Matter

Talk to a Lawyer Talk to a Lawyer

Ask a question Ask a question

Vidhi Samaadhaan Vidhi Samaadhaan

Mural Krishnan Sanjeevi

Responded 5 years ago

A.Contact the social welfare department of your state and file a complaint against your parents for compelling your for child marriage under the relevant act, if you are mentally strong to oppose your parents
Helpful
Helpful
Share

Post Your Matter Post Your Matter

Talk to a Lawyer Talk to a Lawyer

Ask a question Ask a question

Vidhi Samaadhaan Vidhi Samaadhaan

ROBERT D ROZARIO

Responded 5 years ago

A.You are underage, and should restrain from cohabiting with your lover, least he will fall in big trouble. Not only kidnaping but also rape charges will be brought against him. So wait for another four months and marry the man of your choice.

Since your parents are forcing you into any marriage before 18 years and torturing you, lodge a complaint against them under Prevention of Child Marriage Act and Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005. If police do not take your complaint then write to the SP. Alternatively you can file a case u/s 156(3) Cr.PC against your parents before the Magistrate. Contact a local lawyer from Vidhikarya.
Helpful
Helpful
Share

Post Your Matter Post Your Matter

Talk to a Lawyer Talk to a Lawyer

Ask a question Ask a question

Vidhi Samaadhaan Vidhi Samaadhaan

SUMSON .T.S

Responded 5 years ago

A.You can file a complaint in the concerned police station that your parents are compelling to marry somebody of their choice before attaing majority. but there are chances of filing frivilous cases against your lover by your parents inorder to change your mind set.you can marry a person according to your wish after attaining majority.now it is better to concentrate on your studies .Make sure not to fall into the wrong hands .Think wisely
Helpful
Helpful
Share

Post Your Matter Post Your Matter

Talk to a Lawyer Talk to a Lawyer

Ask a question Ask a question

Vidhi Samaadhaan Vidhi Samaadhaan

Deepak Yashwantrao Bade

Responded 5 years ago

A.You cant run from reality. As you know you are under 18 yrs minor and want to marry against your parents will. If you left your parents home and marry without consent of your parents that might be make some trouble and your future husband might be charged with kidnapping. Wait for 4 months and then you are free to marry with ur choice. Dont underestimate that legal provision for valid age of marriage. You can marriage through special marriage act after attending age of majority. kindly consult with family court lawyers or contact with vidhikarya lawyers for legal advice.
Helpful
Helpful
Share

Post Your Matter Post Your Matter

Talk to a Lawyer Talk to a Lawyer

Ask a question Ask a question

Vidhi Samaadhaan Vidhi Samaadhaan

Read Related Answers

question iconMental Abuse and Harassment by Mother in law
Dear Client, Such kind of inhuman ill-treatment and emotional harassment by a mother-in-law towards her daughter-in-law deserves stringent action and strong protest by filing a complaint under Sec.12...
question iconMarriage and police related problem
Dear Client, The Police do not have any authority to interfere or relinquish the marriage of two consenting individuals who have attained majority. In case of false allegations and misuse of power by...
question iconStaying at husband house after court ordered monthly maintenance
Dear Client, In November 2020, the Supreme Court of India ruled that deserted wives and their children are entitled to alimony/maintenance from their husbands from the date they apply for it in court....
question iconHusband and wife problem
Dear Client, In case of marital issues, you can approach a family counselor to resolve the matter and seek appropriate assistance. Hope it helps. Thank you.
question iconSapinda relationship
Dear Client, Under the Hindu Marriage act marrying within your pinda ie Sa- Pinda is prohibited under the sec 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act for the reason that the biological offspring would be genetic...