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4 years ago
my self shashikanth i got love marriage in 2018 mine is joint family me, my parents and brother family was together, after 6 months my wife started telling that she is not ready to stay with my parents so we need to rent new house and she left me for 5 months and went to her parents house , i try convincing her lot and failed so i rented house and went again after 3 months she starting problem stating we need to shift near her parents house, i was not willing for that so again she left me and gone to her parents house after 3 months again i was failed to convince her so again rent houst near her parents house and shifted after 2 months they started telling every month i need to give my full salary to her so she will stay with me when i ignored they starting new problem telling she will not be with me if don't give my salary and she will divorce me raising complaint on me and my family, I completely gone mad what to do for further i am poor person i am working in callcenter job i don't money to consult advocate please help me
SUMATHI LOKESH
Responded 4 years ago
A.You need to try settle this and live separately
Or if you want to divorce her take this also a ground
Or if you want to divorce her take this also a ground
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Suneel Moudgil
Responded 4 years ago
A.1. if you want to remain in the matrimonial relationship, then,
try to settle the matter amicably with your wife involving elders/relatives/friends etc and take her back, and if, failed, file Restitution of conjugal rights petition in the Court,
and,
2. if you want to terminate the matrimonial knot, then,
try to settle the matter amicably with your wife involving elders/relatives/friends etc and go for Mutual Consent Divorce which will be decided in 6-18 months, and you both will be free to live life with your wish,
don't forget to draft an MOU before approaching Mutual Divorce, which is the most essential and important part of a Divorce case,
some basic points to keep in mind and put in writing through an MOU before filing the petition for mutual consent divorce are custody of kids, distribution of assets (movable/immovable), quash/withdraw of pending litigation if any, Maintenance (present/future), Alimony, mode and time of making the payment, streedhan, future litigation, etc.
if failed, you have two options,
one option is to,
file contested divorce on the grounds of mental cruelty but it will take around 3-5 years,
also once you file contested divorce she will surely file/claim
498a complaint
Domestic Violence case
maintenance,
so be ready for them too,
and,
the second option is to file Restitution of conjugal rights petition in the Court, to show your bonafide intentions to save the matrimonial tie, however, you can withdraw the same any time,
RCR will work as a safeguard to 498a, maintenance, DV etc
if you have no money for the legal battle, you can contact the District Legal Services Authority of your area to get free legal help. search NALSA in google for details
try to settle the matter amicably with your wife involving elders/relatives/friends etc and take her back, and if, failed, file Restitution of conjugal rights petition in the Court,
and,
2. if you want to terminate the matrimonial knot, then,
try to settle the matter amicably with your wife involving elders/relatives/friends etc and go for Mutual Consent Divorce which will be decided in 6-18 months, and you both will be free to live life with your wish,
don't forget to draft an MOU before approaching Mutual Divorce, which is the most essential and important part of a Divorce case,
some basic points to keep in mind and put in writing through an MOU before filing the petition for mutual consent divorce are custody of kids, distribution of assets (movable/immovable), quash/withdraw of pending litigation if any, Maintenance (present/future), Alimony, mode and time of making the payment, streedhan, future litigation, etc.
if failed, you have two options,
one option is to,
file contested divorce on the grounds of mental cruelty but it will take around 3-5 years,
also once you file contested divorce she will surely file/claim
498a complaint
Domestic Violence case
maintenance,
so be ready for them too,
and,
the second option is to file Restitution of conjugal rights petition in the Court, to show your bonafide intentions to save the matrimonial tie, however, you can withdraw the same any time,
RCR will work as a safeguard to 498a, maintenance, DV etc
if you have no money for the legal battle, you can contact the District Legal Services Authority of your area to get free legal help. search NALSA in google for details
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Sidhaarth
Responded 4 years ago
A.You are getting blackmailed by your wife and her parents. Overcome to your weaknesses. Donot worry about such police cases. Courts and police also understand such dispute and refer for mediation. Tackle the situation tactfully to come out from such situation. Fee precautionary steps are required to safe guard parents etc. If required consult with details.
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Access to justice is a fundamental element of a just, equitable and civilized society. The vision of Access to Justice for all means that opportunities for securing justice are not denied to any citizen for reason of economic and other disability. With this vision Department of Justice initiated a pro-bono legal services scheme to provide free legal assistance to the marginalized applicants/litigants.
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Further, pro- bono legal assistance provided by the advocates is a voluntary service where the advocates willingly devote their time to provide legal aid to the poor and needy applicants. Once a litigant/applicant has been connected to a preferable pro- bono advocate by the Department, the Department is not responsible for the quality of legal aid provided or time committed by the advocate to the case of the litigant.
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For Further Details Contact:
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Nyaya Degula Building, 1st Floor, H.Siddaiah Road,
Bengaluru
Email : karslsa[at]gmail[dot]com
Website : www.kslsa.kar.nic.in
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Ayantika Mondal @ Prime Legal
Responded 4 years ago
A.Hi Shashikanth,
In this hour of problem, you need to stay calm.
As per the below descriptions, since you have rented a separate house and started living there so you may follow the below:-
A. 1st leave that rented house and come back to your house.
B. Speak with a lawyer and ask to issue a legal notice for RCR - the restitution of conjugal rights, calling her to join you at the matrimonial home. ( this will give good protection from future maintenance and all),
C. Failing which, plz ask your lawyer to file the RCR petitions t court.
In this hour of problem, you need to stay calm.
As per the below descriptions, since you have rented a separate house and started living there so you may follow the below:-
A. 1st leave that rented house and come back to your house.
B. Speak with a lawyer and ask to issue a legal notice for RCR - the restitution of conjugal rights, calling her to join you at the matrimonial home. ( this will give good protection from future maintenance and all),
C. Failing which, plz ask your lawyer to file the RCR petitions t court.
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