Wife & her family not giving any answer
3 years ago
We got married in 2015. My is working in bank. We are living with my parents. My wife has not done even my morning tea or tiffin. My mother used to do everything cooking and tiffin for my wife also. My wife has done only job from 9 to 7 nothing else responsibilities in family.
One day she fought with my mom and slap my mom so i called my wife's parents and told them to give proper sanskar to her daughter. Then she told me she want to live with me only seperately which was not possible because my parents are old and i need to take care of them in their old age.
My mother then got medical emergency and bed rest for 3 months, My father used to do cooking at that time and i requested my wife to come back in this medical situation still she not even visited my mother as moral responsibilities though my mother made tiffin for her 4.5 years.
We are living in flat on which was bought on my wife name but with my parents savings money with proof like transffering amount from My account to my wife and same amount cheque given to builder for buying flat. They after whatever loan nominal installment is paying my wife from her salary account. Its been year now and i have asked many times but she is not coming back and asking for seperate living only.
Her parents are not giving answers what to do next. My wife asking flat in which me and my parents living just because flat on her name and she is paying nominal installment.Though flat is bought with my parents money, and i have all bank statements of transferring amount from my to her account.There is 4 lakh FD in her account and she has not paid installment worth 5 lakh rupees of current flat.
Then she was asking her salary from the day she married to me and came to my home. What to do in this case ?
She not even followed any responsibilities to my parents and left home by slapping my mother which is main pain point for me. I am totally fed up with my wife and her family. Her father is also not earning so keeping his daughter at his home by misguiding and enjoying her salary.
If she is ready to come asking forgiveness then my family is ready to accept her if she is not ready then we want atleast divorse from her without paying single penny from my parents hard earned money. Is there any way to get rid of my sanskarless wife ?
Please help. Its been 1 year not she is living at her parents house. No police complaint or No Case has been filed so far.
Ayantika Mondal @ Prime Legal
Responded 3 years ago
Issue a legal notice for divorce on cruelty grounds and file the petition. this is the case most likely,ay get settled.
Ritesh Tahaliyani
Responded 3 years ago
Matrimonial disputes are such that they would require at length understanding of the entire scenario, both past as well as present. Since you and your parents seem to be open to allowing your wife to stay at your home provided she tenders an apology, chances are fair that a solution may be worked out. I advice both of you to hire a professional marriage counselor, attend a few sessions and try to narrow down the issues and make things workable. Our office provides professional marriage counseling as also litigation support in case of failure of counseling and mediation sessions. You may seek our contact details from VIDHIKARYA and we shall be happy to provide marriage counseling to you and or your wife, as the case may be and in an event of it bearing no result, needful shall be done to address your concerns as to Alimony, your Flat etc.
Chitra Sundar
Responded 3 years ago