Family issues
11 months ago
I am 27 years old single female. I belong to a well educated family in Haryana. Last year I had to face a lot of troubles like physically ,emotionally and mentally. I told my family about my relationship and tried to convince them for 2 years but then in the end I broke up with the boy. Some time later, My Sister's husband read my chats with some other guy without my permit and created a scene. He abused me and have used derogatory words like prostitute and all. My family then become completely against me and as my sister was pregnant so they asked me to stay calm and do not seek any help. I have sustained this torture for a long time. They wont allow me to get out alone with my friends even.I also got some accidents and burn injuries and the trauma became unbearable. But I tried to not give up and looked for a job. I have now got a offer letter with some decent pay but in other city. But now My family is not allowing me to go. The joining is in 8 days and still they are not letting me to go .They will hit me if I went against them, but I really want to do this job and have already signed the offer letter.Is there any way because I have tried to talk so times and told them that feel depressed at the home and I just want my career now.Dont know what to do. I need some help urgently but I dont know the process for this.
Being an adult and mature woman of an educated family, you got a fundamental right to take a decision about your life and career. Nobody can stop or harass you for the same including your family members. Reach out to the office of the Chairperson, Human Rights Commission, and Woman Commission to file a complaint either online or offline mode with a copy to the Secretary to the Ministry of Social Justice and Empowerment. On receipt of your complaint concerned authorities will take Suo motto steps in the matter referring the matter to the Dist. Magistrate or Police Commissioner to take immediate action against the persons involved in the harassment/atrocities and for taking suitable steps for the safety and security of the Complainant. You may directly reach out to the Dist; Magistrate or DSP/DCP with a copy of the complaint made to the above authorities for their advance information and n/a. As a woman, you are also entitled to get free legal aid from the State/Dist. Legal Services Authority once you approach to them.
As per the information you have given it is advisable to you to file a FIR against them for criminal assault and harassment to police.
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