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7 months ago

I am a student of final yera of college and only 6 months are left for my college to end but my mother is blackmailing me because her own personal issue she is using me and not allowing me to study further

Anik

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A.Dear Client,
It's essential to prioritize your well-being and education. Here are some steps you can consider taking:

Seek Support: Reach out to friends, family members, or a counselor who can provide emotional support during this challenging time. Talking to someone you trust can be helpful in processing your feelings and concerns.

Set Boundaries: It's important to establish clear boundaries with your mother. Politely but firmly communicate your need for space to focus on your education. Explain that your education is essential for your future, and you need her support in this endeavor.

Express Your Feelings: Have an open and honest conversation with your mother about how her actions are affecting you. Share your feelings, concerns, and the importance of your education. Encourage a constructive dialogue.

Consider Counseling: If communication with your mother remains difficult, consider seeking the assistance of a family therapist or counselor who can facilitate discussions and help improve family dynamics.

Stay Focused: Continue to prioritize your education and academic goals. It may be challenging to concentrate with emotional stress, but staying focused on your studies is essential for your future success.

Self-Care: Take care of your physical and emotional well-being. Engage in activities that help reduce stress, such as exercise, meditation, or hobbies you enjoy. Make self-care a priority.

Explore Financial Independence: Depending on your circumstances, consider exploring options for financial independence, such as part-time work or scholarships, to reduce reliance on your mother for financial support.

Legal Assistance: In extreme cases where you feel that your well-being is severely compromised or you face threats or coercion, you may want to consult with legal authorities or seek a restraining order if necessary. This should be considered a last resort.

Campus Resources: If you are attending college, reach out to your college's counseling center or student support services. They may offer counseling and guidance to students dealing with personal challenges.

Future Plans: Continue to plan for your future and explore opportunities for further education or career advancement. Stay focused on your long-term goals.
Thank you.
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Kishan Dutt Kalaskar

Responded 7 months ago

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A.Dear Sir,
You may use your family friends to resolve the issue if failed then approach the Police or your college authorities.
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