Wife not contributing home expenses .
3 months ago
We are married in 2015.we have 1 Girl , 7 yrs old.based on my wife decision, I seperated my parents and living with my wife .we are both private employees.my wife earning 55K every month.she is not contributing home expenses.i am not asking savings money of my wife.just 10k-15k for household expenses.what can do.my parents 70+ year old.she is not permitting my parents also to live with us . please help me
A.Dear Client,
Navigating such family dynamics requires delicate consideration and communication. To address the financial imbalance and concerns about living arrangements, initiate an open and honest conversation with your wife. Share your perspective on the financial contributions needed for household expenses and express your desire for your parents to be part of the family. Seek to understand her concerns and work towards finding a mutually agreeable solution. If direct communication proves challenging, considering the assistance of a professional mediator or counselor may provide a neutral platform for discussing these matters. Prioritize maintaining a healthy and supportive environment for all family members involved, and explore compromises that ensure the well-being and happiness of everyone in the family. Legal advice may also be sought to understand any legal aspects related to shared finances and living arrangements. Your parents have the option to file a complaint against your daughter-in-law under the Domestic Violence Act, 2005, and can also submit an application under Section 5 of the Maintenance and Welfare of Parents & Sr. Citizens Act, 2007. This application should be directed to the maintenance tribunal presided over by the SDM/DM, outlining the harassment and humiliation faced by your aged parents. Upon receiving the maintenance application, the tribunal will conduct an inquiry, allowing all parties to be heard, and then determine the amount of maintenance. The tribunal can issue an order for payment of maintenance, up to Rs.10,000, by the errant children or relatives, along with the possibility of eviction from the property belonging to the Sr. Citizens/Parents. Additionally, the Maintenance Tribunal holds the authority under Sec.23 of the Act to cancel a deed of gift executed in favor of children or relatives who fail to maintain their aged parents/Sr. Citizens. This forum provides a less expensive and more straightforward way to resolve such disputes. The Maintenance and Welfare of Parents & Sr. Citizens Act aims to protect the safety and security of Sr. Citizens facing harassment in their later years, ensuring they lead a life with dignity. An Elder Help Line (No.14567) is available through the Ministry of Social Justice and Empowerment, providing assistance to Sr. Citizens in various crises. Your parents may consider contacting them through the helpline to seek resolution in this matter.
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Navigating such family dynamics requires delicate consideration and communication. To address the financial imbalance and concerns about living arrangements, initiate an open and honest conversation with your wife. Share your perspective on the financial contributions needed for household expenses and express your desire for your parents to be part of the family. Seek to understand her concerns and work towards finding a mutually agreeable solution. If direct communication proves challenging, considering the assistance of a professional mediator or counselor may provide a neutral platform for discussing these matters. Prioritize maintaining a healthy and supportive environment for all family members involved, and explore compromises that ensure the well-being and happiness of everyone in the family. Legal advice may also be sought to understand any legal aspects related to shared finances and living arrangements. Your parents have the option to file a complaint against your daughter-in-law under the Domestic Violence Act, 2005, and can also submit an application under Section 5 of the Maintenance and Welfare of Parents & Sr. Citizens Act, 2007. This application should be directed to the maintenance tribunal presided over by the SDM/DM, outlining the harassment and humiliation faced by your aged parents. Upon receiving the maintenance application, the tribunal will conduct an inquiry, allowing all parties to be heard, and then determine the amount of maintenance. The tribunal can issue an order for payment of maintenance, up to Rs.10,000, by the errant children or relatives, along with the possibility of eviction from the property belonging to the Sr. Citizens/Parents. Additionally, the Maintenance Tribunal holds the authority under Sec.23 of the Act to cancel a deed of gift executed in favor of children or relatives who fail to maintain their aged parents/Sr. Citizens. This forum provides a less expensive and more straightforward way to resolve such disputes. The Maintenance and Welfare of Parents & Sr. Citizens Act aims to protect the safety and security of Sr. Citizens facing harassment in their later years, ensuring they lead a life with dignity. An Elder Help Line (No.14567) is available through the Ministry of Social Justice and Empowerment, providing assistance to Sr. Citizens in various crises. Your parents may consider contacting them through the helpline to seek resolution in this matter.
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A.Dear Client,
In the given scenario, considering the complexity of such an immoral and unwanted issue, if your parents agreed, instead of you, your aged parents can resolve the issue by exercising their rights available under different laws of the land. Amongst others, the following legal remedies are available to your parents to resolve the crisis in the right way. Your parents can file a complaint against their daughter-in-law under the Domestic Violence Act, 2005, and can file an application under Section 5 of the Maintenance and Welfare of Parents & Sr. Citizens Act, 2007 before the maintenance tribunal presided over by the SDM/DM explaining therein the nature and details of harassment and humiliation facing by your aged parents in the hand of their daughter-in-law. On receipt of an application for maintenance under sub-section(I) of Sec.5 of the Act, after giving notice of the application to the children or relative and after allowing the parties to be heard, hold an inquiry for determining the amount of maintenance and based on the merit in the claim pass an order for payment of maintenance up to Rs.10,000/-payable by the errant children or relatives to the applicant, parents including order of eviction of erring children/relatives from the property belong to Sr. Citizens/Parents. The Maintenance Tribunal is also empowered under Sec.23 of the Act to cancell a deed of gift executed in favour of children/relatives who failed to maintain their aged parents/Sr. Citizens. This forum is less expensive and hassle-free to resolve disputes. This benevolent act is exclusively enacted for the protection of the safety and security of Sr.Citizens who are being harassed and abused by their children in their sunset years to lead a life with dignity and peace. No Advocate is allowed in the proceedings to represent the case either on behalf of Sr. Citizens or OP, erring children/family. Further, an Elder Help Line (No.14567) is launched by the Ministry of Social Justice and Empowerment exclusively for the protection of the interest of Sr. Citizens of the Country from any kind of crisis from health to wealth, your aged parents may take a chance by contacting them through helpline number to resolve the matter.
In the given scenario, considering the complexity of such an immoral and unwanted issue, if your parents agreed, instead of you, your aged parents can resolve the issue by exercising their rights available under different laws of the land. Amongst others, the following legal remedies are available to your parents to resolve the crisis in the right way. Your parents can file a complaint against their daughter-in-law under the Domestic Violence Act, 2005, and can file an application under Section 5 of the Maintenance and Welfare of Parents & Sr. Citizens Act, 2007 before the maintenance tribunal presided over by the SDM/DM explaining therein the nature and details of harassment and humiliation facing by your aged parents in the hand of their daughter-in-law. On receipt of an application for maintenance under sub-section(I) of Sec.5 of the Act, after giving notice of the application to the children or relative and after allowing the parties to be heard, hold an inquiry for determining the amount of maintenance and based on the merit in the claim pass an order for payment of maintenance up to Rs.10,000/-payable by the errant children or relatives to the applicant, parents including order of eviction of erring children/relatives from the property belong to Sr. Citizens/Parents. The Maintenance Tribunal is also empowered under Sec.23 of the Act to cancell a deed of gift executed in favour of children/relatives who failed to maintain their aged parents/Sr. Citizens. This forum is less expensive and hassle-free to resolve disputes. This benevolent act is exclusively enacted for the protection of the safety and security of Sr.Citizens who are being harassed and abused by their children in their sunset years to lead a life with dignity and peace. No Advocate is allowed in the proceedings to represent the case either on behalf of Sr. Citizens or OP, erring children/family. Further, an Elder Help Line (No.14567) is launched by the Ministry of Social Justice and Empowerment exclusively for the protection of the interest of Sr. Citizens of the Country from any kind of crisis from health to wealth, your aged parents may take a chance by contacting them through helpline number to resolve the matter.
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A.Dear Client,
In situation try discussing the financial responsibilities and the desire for your parents to live with you. If communication doesn't resolve the issues, consider seeking professional mediation or counseling to address the concerns and find a middle ground. If the situation escalates and legal intervention is needed, you may explore legal options such as consulting with a family lawyer to understand your rights and responsibilities. It's crucial to handle such matters with sensitivity and explore amicable solutions for the well-being of everyone involved, considering the best interests of your child as a priority.
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In situation try discussing the financial responsibilities and the desire for your parents to live with you. If communication doesn't resolve the issues, consider seeking professional mediation or counseling to address the concerns and find a middle ground. If the situation escalates and legal intervention is needed, you may explore legal options such as consulting with a family lawyer to understand your rights and responsibilities. It's crucial to handle such matters with sensitivity and explore amicable solutions for the well-being of everyone involved, considering the best interests of your child as a priority.
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