Husband is blackmailing.
3 years ago
After 13 yrs of marriage, me and my husband are living separatly for six month. My husband is a overdominating, physically and mentally abusive person.I also got complaint of his bad touch to my maids. He also molested and tried to make physical relation with my very close friend. When i opposed his abuses and this molestation. He said yess he did becoz you are not satisfying me and also said sorry to my frnd. I became devasted and frustrated and then i started him pin pointing his bad and abusive behavior and said i cant tolerate publically insults, shouting and abuse. I can leave him if he is not going to change his attitude for me. He hacked my mails, tracked me every where through my google account. After his hacking, I did not found some of my important mails,might be deleted also i found all my contacts and some photo have been deleted. He also stolen some mails i exchanged with my culleague who been my friend due to regular depression, i was facing in my abusive relation. I used to share may intimate talks between me and my husband with him. He was a kind of emotional support to me. I really think I am alive becoz of my that culleague else i might do suicide before a long. I never wanted that the content of those mails be open in my family and my abusive manupulative husband knew this so whenever i tried to raise my voice against his abuse and insults and his molestation case, he used to say that go tel say to all i will say to all that i just hugged your friend but think if i will show your mails what could happen, though I dont want to open those mail and will never open. I used to frighten. he blackmailed me like hell. But once he abused me a lot and i recorded his loud voice with killing threats of me and my all friends but he saw and beaten me to delet that record. I ran towards outside he locked the mail door.. My daughters (4 yr and 10 yr then) cried and begged me to delet that recording. I have to delet. But with this i been sooo worried and decided to come out of this trap. Collecting courage, i called my parents and told them many things and said i cant live with my husband and then I separated. My husband did not let me take my younger daughter and taken sign on stamp papers. I have to do those sign in his pressure. Now he is blackmailing me for property and money transfer with those mails, frightening my parents to defame my family and me that i am having an affair with my culeague. He probably also manupulated those mails. He is also blackmailing me as he is not letting me and my elder daughter (Age 11) to talk with my younger daughter (Age-5). His Bhabhi is saying she will never let us talk with a 5 year old girl. It may also be noted that he has shown those mails/manupulated to many of my friends and relatives. some have an impression that i am leaving my husband becoz of this so called affair. However, its not true. Now plz give your suggestion. Can i proceed a case against his email steeling, data manipulation, data loss, blackmailing and money demand and frightening my family.???
1) As you we living 13 years together & as now you have started finding his mistakes, so your Husband has mishandled your email accounts etc. I have a doubt that how did he come to know your email id PASSWORDS. Have you told him OR some other way out. As you have said he has hacked, but is he an IT Engineer & too hacking a password is NOT easy
2) Also you said that he had some relations with your friend & maid with inappropriate touch etc. & he is just blackmailing you for as you have hugged a friend of yours. There’s nothing bad to hug a friend with whom you are close with. What is the big issue in it? It is Not an obscene matter to worry about..
3) Killing threats cannot be ignored at any times, Please be careful if you are staying in same house, inform any of the close relatives or any close friend of yours in writing note. If things seem to be out of control give a compliant in local police station as your husband is threatening for life. Prefer NEVER to stay with him again, as the next step of such person cannot be known.
4) YOUR Q : My husband did not let me take my younger daughter and taken sign on stamp papers. I have to do those sign in his pressure
ANS: Send your relative or family to take your 4 year daughter, if required take help from Local Mahila Mandal OR Mahila Aayog (WOMEN COMMISSION) If you know then good, otherwise I can help you with the assistance of Mahila Mandal OR Mahila Aayog & also remember MOTHER is the NATURAL GUARDIAN of a girl child till the age of 7 years- SO EVEN IN COURT YOU WILL WIN. Signing on any stamp papers is NOT valid under pressure. Give a written letter/ Complaint to police station mentioning this incident.
5) YOUR Q : Now he is blackmailing me for property and money transfer with those mails, frightening my parents to defame my family and me that i am having an affair with my culeague. He probably also manupulated those mails.
ANS: Kindly record all the calls & save it in pendrive, all the black mailing will go away soon as you are no longer with him, about the emails you can STOP the same by resetting the password by your Mobile phone or alternate email id & so NO longer he will have your email id PASSWORD. As the colleague is a good friend of yours so NO need to worry, I hope that you are a working women & so people will always make remarks & comments even if you walk or talk over the phone, So just ignore them as we practically CANNOT go & shut down every ones mouth.
6) YOUR Q : Can i proceed a case against his email steeling, data manipulation, data loss, blackmailing and money demand and frightening my family.???
ANS: Be calm & patient; think in long terms such above cases donot stand a long way. Kindly read carefully what I have mentioned above & your queries will be solved. And from Now he will NOT black mail you as you are No longer staying with him & Nobody can frighten your family that way. Then too if you feel that he may come & assault your family members the Put a portable D- link –IP Camera where you can watch the live recording for the entire day on your mobile phone. It is Not much costly also just some Rs.4,000/- etc & you can save the recording on your phone though you may be in your office.
7) YOUR Q : Now plz give your suggestion
ANS: It is a proper time to proceed for Divorce
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Ayantika Mondal @ Prime Legal
Responded 3 years ago
B. You can certainly file for identity theft, etc under IT and IPC