Want legal openion on controlling Father Want legal openion on controlling Father

2 years ago

Hello I am 18 year old student..I am preparing for medical entrance but my life has become hell because of my father's side...they are giving me money but they are very controlling they try to control every aspect of my life because of this I got into depression had dark circles..i have no job but at the same time they are intolerable so I came to hostel which is nearby my house now if i stop taking money from them do they have legal right over me...or will they try to bring me back home or try to kill me...I want help..I want to break every relationship with my father please suggest me something because of them I lost my concentration in studies I lost my respect I lost all my friends..please help me respected sir/mam

Ayantika Mondal @ Prime Legal

Responded 2 years ago

A.Hi,
Its a phase in life. Parents do appear very controlling during adolescent phase. But their intention for the betterment of their children. You should talk to your family and make them aware of your mental health and depression, surely they will understand. You can also enlist the help of counsellors to tackle the issue.
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Anik

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A.Hi,
This is a family issue. I would advise you to settle the issues with your father in an amicable manner. If you are having difficulty, you can approach various help groups and counsellors so that you can tackle your depression and mental health issues. Once you are an adult you can lead your life in any manner, your parents cannot force you into anything, but parents control your life for your betterment. Seek out professional help from professional counsellors.
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Ankur Goel @ Complete Law Shield

Responded 2 years ago

A.try to kill ?
for what ?

parents try to control for your benefit only, not for their benefit.

after 18, you can live independent and also stop taking money but how you will pay fees for medical college ?
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Abhimanyu Shandilya

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A.There is no legal way to break ties with some one but yes once you become adult you have the right to stay alone and away from home by earning livelihood for yourself but make sure that you do not fall into any kind of trap and get derailed. Very often it happens that fraudsters keep looking around young innocent guys like you to pull them into illegal activities and flesh trade so, beware and try to reconcile with your family as in this world nothing is more precious and supportive than the family.
All the best. If you feel bad about anything you can call vidhikarya team and ask for my no. and speak to me free of cost but donot do anything which can make you regret later in life.
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