Require law clarity in dealing with family in laws
2 years ago
Dear sir/Madam
I am 41 year old women having 2 sister-in-law and in laws. I am taking care of my husband's parents since from last 18 years. Now from past 5 years i have lots of differences with my mother in law because of this I am in stress on daily basis. The property amoung 3 brothers has been divided 22 years back itself.
initially i and my husband accepted that my inlaws will stay with us but they are not recognizing my effort of look after them. we told them if they are not ready to recognize us then stay parallelly with other two sons, for them this also not acceptable. My father in laws says that he born and brought up here so he wont leave his house (the house is mutated to my husband at the time of division). This created a lots of gap between my family and with in laws. Other two sons family are also not ready to take care their parent atleast for few months But they only tranfer money to his fathers account and evaded from the responsibilites of taking care of their parents
Because of these development I am facing lots of stress due this I am continously emotional pain in my heart area and I may fear it could escalate to other major problem. I consulted psychiatrist they have give the some medicines to control the stress but my real stress is caused because of my sister in law and their family who lure with money to my in laws.
Now I have taken lots of stress and lost lot of health because of this I am continuosly under moniter and homopathic medicine to maintain my body health. Becasue of my health condition i am my husband decided to move out of this house.
We are facing this unnecessary problem because of I feel the conspiracy from all the members from all in laws now I want my compensation from the 2 sister in laws and their respective husband for the detirioted health and stress which i took from last 18 years. In contrary they enjoying their life without the responsibility of their inlaws
can you please guide what me options I do have in law or in the National Commission for Women Act or in DVA or in Equal Remuneration Act
I am sharing my husbands phone number is registration feel free to share your number to him
Better stay far away from them.
Ayantika Mondal @ Prime Legal
Responded 2 years ago
The court, police and other authorities will be of no help, as this is purely an family dispute. You need to resolve the issue amicably by talking with your relatives. You can employ the service of professionals such as counsellors.
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This is matter which needs to be amicably resolved by all the parties concerned. The law can help very little in particular situation. The parents have the absoulete right to stay wherever they want, you cannot force them out. You can ask your other relatives to take equal care of the parents. Or else, you can make complaint to the adjudicating authority in the Senior Citizens Act, to make the other relatives also responsible, but if your parents do not want to leave, then there is nothing much they can do as well.
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Sidhaarth
Responded 2 years ago
Vaidehi Samant
Responded 2 years ago
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Your absence for few months or years may let your parents in law no about your sincere services to them. court and police stations may not bring peace and harmony in your family.
Pardeep Kumar Dhiman Dhiman
Responded 2 years ago
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