Require law clarity in dealing with family in laws Require law clarity in dealing with family in laws

2 years ago

Dear sir/Madam

I am 41 year old women having 2 sister-in-law and in laws. I am taking care of my husband's parents since from last 18 years. Now from past 5 years i have lots of differences with my mother in law because of this I am in stress on daily basis. The property amoung 3 brothers has been divided 22 years back itself.

initially i and my husband accepted that my inlaws will stay with us but they are not recognizing my effort of look after them. we told them if they are not ready to recognize us then stay parallelly with other two sons, for them this also not acceptable. My father in laws says that he born and brought up here so he wont leave his house (the house is mutated to my husband at the time of division). This created a lots of gap between my family and with in laws. Other two sons family are also not ready to take care their parent atleast for few months But they only tranfer money to his fathers account and evaded from the responsibilites of taking care of their parents

Because of these development I am facing lots of stress due this I am continously emotional pain in my heart area and I may fear it could escalate to other major problem. I consulted psychiatrist they have give the some medicines to control the stress but my real stress is caused because of my sister in law and their family who lure with money to my in laws.

Now I have taken lots of stress and lost lot of health because of this I am continuosly under moniter and homopathic medicine to maintain my body health. Becasue of my health condition i am my husband decided to move out of this house.

We are facing this unnecessary problem because of I feel the conspiracy from all the members from all in laws now I want my compensation from the 2 sister in laws and their respective husband for the detirioted health and stress which i took from last 18 years. In contrary they enjoying their life without the responsibility of their inlaws

can you please guide what me options I do have in law or in the National Commission for Women Act or in DVA or in Equal Remuneration Act

I am sharing my husbands phone number is registration feel free to share your number to him

Kishan Dutt Kalaskar

Responded 2 years ago

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A.Dear Sir,
Better stay far away from them.
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Abhimanyu Shandilya

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A.Family matters are very tricky to handle and there are not many laws which can interfere and regulate to great extent and hence the family members are required to discuss among themselves and find out the solution to the problem. You can not ask a court or forum that other brother should also take equal responsibility but yes if the parents file a case for maintenance then they can ask for it and there you can raise a claim that they should also participate in taking care of the parents.
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Ayantika Mondal @ Prime Legal

Responded 2 years ago

A.Hi,
The court, police and other authorities will be of no help, as this is purely an family dispute. You need to resolve the issue amicably by talking with your relatives. You can employ the service of professionals such as counsellors.
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Anik

Responded 2 years ago

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A.Hi,
This is matter which needs to be amicably resolved by all the parties concerned. The law can help very little in particular situation. The parents have the absoulete right to stay wherever they want, you cannot force them out. You can ask your other relatives to take equal care of the parents. Or else, you can make complaint to the adjudicating authority in the Senior Citizens Act, to make the other relatives also responsible, but if your parents do not want to leave, then there is nothing much they can do as well.
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Sidhaarth

Responded 2 years ago

A.You donot have any right to claim any compensation from your sister in law's etc. Your husband is legally and morally bound to take care of your in-laws. Even your in-laws are entitled to claim maintenance etc under senior citizens Act from any son or daughter of their choice. You and your husband can talk to in laws to sort out the difference s you and your husband can discuss with other sobs and daughters about the issue of dividing the responsibility mutually citing your health issue. You can also take help of counsellors.
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Chakrapani Madupu

Responded 2 years ago

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A.sorry you need to ask the contact in paid sections only as it is not allowed here
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Vaidehi Samant

Responded 2 years ago

A.You may report your matter to National Commission of Women or you may file a case of Domestic Violence against your in-laws for causing mental cruelty in the Court of your concerned jurisdiction but please note that what all incidents you mentioned are normal wear and tear of daily life of many women who reside with their in-laws and you served your in-laws by your own will and responsibility and nobody forced you as it seems from what you mentioned therefore it is hard to analyse whether your complaint/ application in case you happen file whether it will be dealt very seriously. Hence you are suggested to engage servant to take care of your in-laws and ignore their criticisms and move on with life. Thank you.
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Kishan Dutt Kalaskar

Responded 2 years ago

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A.Dear Madam
Your absence for few months or years may let your parents in law no about your sincere services to them. court and police stations may not bring peace and harmony in your family.
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Pardeep Kumar Dhiman Dhiman

Responded 2 years ago

A.Aap aaram se baithkar parivar walo se baat karè ki ab mera health thik nhi rahta h or me mansik rup se preshan rahti hu. Isliye aap bauji ki or mataji ki dekhbhal kare. Yadi nhi kuch hal nikal paata hai tab aap mahila help line ki help le sakti hai. Or domestic violence me bhi jaa sakte hai.
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