harrasment by relative

1 year ago

I am a 26 year old single female from haryana. I had been into some relationships in my life. I have told about my last relationship for which the guy and I was serious. I tried to convince my family but due to some reasons I couldnt convince them after fighting for 3 years. Then due to some personal issues we broke up and in some Time I moved on and started dating some other person. After that one day My sister's husband without seeking my permission used my laptop in which all of my social media accounts were logged in. He read all of my conversations without asking me to use my laptop and then told to my family. After one month He started messaging bad words to me and tortured my sister as well. He used derogatory words like prostitute , characterless etc etc. He spoke about this to everyone in my extened family. Not even this, he reached my ex's office met him, asked him for my pictures that unfortunately he couldnt get. he also showed my chats pictures to my ex and said that I would viral them out. Not only this, he messaged some of my friends frm my college time and started meeting them who were with me during my college time. Every day he kept on sending bad messages to me and my family. But my family every time ignored for my sister's sake. But due to this, I have been restricted to go out alone anywhere. In every short interval of time, he is doing this again and again, keeps on sending messages about me to my family and friends. Even to whom I was dating recently he is still messaging. He pointed out my job andhow I have earned money. Not only this after the marraige he was sending sometimes me messages on whatsapp like saying that you are beautiful ,cute , pick up lines on me, which I ignored always just as a normal act. I stopped answering his calls and messages for quite long time. After when he read my chats he statred doing all this defamation thing.He has been digging out what happened 8 years ago by meeting my ex boyfriends and friends. He has been telling about it to eveyone and also using fake Id to messgae me . I have been constantly blamed for what is happening in my sisters Life. I could not talk to my friends privately , could not go out and I feel like kept in a jail from 9 months and nothing has beenchanging. I have also got suicidal thoughts but then I motivated myself anyhow. He is still doing the same and I am not allowed even to do anything because of him. I cant bear this kind of behavior anymore. I need to know what I can do to protect myself from him in future because he has not been stopping from doing all this and there is no one on my side to understand what I am going through.