Boyfriend refuse to marry Boyfriend refuse to marry

5 years ago

Im a hindu 24 yrs old. My bofriend is muslim 25 yrs old. We had in relationship for past 5 yrs. In between his parents not gave permission for marriage. So he keep gap btwn us some times. He got some mental problems due to drug use 4 yrs and 1 yr back. Now again he have same problem of mental illness. Now he says he cant marry me. His family also said that. We had physical relationship so many times in my home and at munnar also. Last week he admited in amental hospital for deaddiction. They said he is a mental patient. He could not marry me. And he refuses marriage. Can i make a complaint for breach of promise of marriage? Please help me.

Deepak Yashwantrao Bade

Responded 5 years ago

A.dear client kindly lodge complaint with police and also file a maintenance case claiming status of wife due to live-in relationship.
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Anonymous

Replied 5 years ago

Now he is under deaddiction treatment and related mental issues. They have all the certificates. Now he refuse the physical relationship between us.

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Rajender Prasad

Responded 5 years ago

A.Dear client, yes you can lodgea complaint. For details, pl. contact some advocate through vidhikarya.com.
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Anonymous

Replied 5 years ago

Advocate says that i cant lodge a complaint against a mentally illed person

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Shanti Ranjan Behera

Responded 5 years ago

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A.Dear Client,
The answer is yes and again NO.
First see what you want to get.If you want to get property etc from a mentally ill patient then the issue is different.
Second thing,Even if you marry after some point of time, say after he is back to normalcy after discharge from the Mental Hospital, then you need to think seriously about the future and the marriage has to be solemnize under Special marriage Act,1954. Since you have not mentioned anything about your parents,judgment in a khap panchayat/love jehad thing can not be ruled out.
The Choice is Yours.
Shanti Ranjan Behera
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Anonymous

Replied 5 years ago

I cant livr without him. My parents partially gave permission for marriage. I tried to meet him. But his family didnt allowed that. Can i visit him? Im ready to make any adjudtments. I will wait. I have all the proofs that he loves me. But now he says he cant marry me. His father gave back all the properties i gave him. But i cant step back from him. I want to marry him. Im mentally destroyed. I resigned my job. I cant do anything. Please rply with any solution.

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Shanti Ranjan Behera

Replied 5 years ago

Dear Client,
Please visit the mental hospital/de-addiction centre with one of your friend, or one of their family friend and see what can be done.
Shanti Ranjan Behera
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Anonymous

Replied 5 years ago

I tried it. They didnt allowed that. They are in hurry for give back all the properties i gave him. I cant contact him.

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Shanti Ranjan Behera

Replied 5 years ago

Dear Client,
Then follow the suggestion given by Mr Kishan Dutt Kalaskar, Retired Judge.
Shanti Ranjan Behera
Advocate

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Kishan Dutt Kalaskar

Responded 5 years ago

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A.Dear Madam,
You can lodge complaint with police and also file a maintenance case claiming status of wife due to live-in relationship.

For full procedure contact me on mobile through Vidhikarya.
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Anonymous

Replied 5 years ago

How can i make a complaint? Im not aware of legal procedures. Can i marry him? He is not mentally stable now. His parents didnt allow me to see him. Now he is under treatment. He also say that he cant marry me.

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Rameshwar Dadhe

Responded 5 years ago

A.U can take help of police department. If both are agreeing for marriage. U can apply for registration procedure. For marriage
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Anonymous

Replied 5 years ago

They are not ready for marriage. His family diesnt like me. He will obey his parents. And now he is not mentally stable and he says that he cant marry me.

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Rameshwar Dadhe

Replied 5 years ago

U can file complaint against them

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Anonymous

Replied 5 years ago

By which section? Can u please reply me. Im not aware f law and there is no one to help me. How can i make a complaint?

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Rameshwar Dadhe

Replied 5 years ago

U can make complaint to the police station against parents. For threat to kill we both

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Vishwabandhu

Responded 5 years ago

A.Dear Client if your Love is true then instead of making any Police complaint help your boyfriend to be cured. Due to drug addiction he does not know what he is saying. He is mental patient so he does not know what he is saying or doing. Drug addiction is very bad and one looses his senses.
Dear client at present help him and when he will become normal he will marry u. Dear try u understand true meaning of Love. Dear client Love is not selfish. We sacrifice in Love for each other and u r so selfish that u want send your Boyfriend to jail and that too when he is ill. Just think is it right ?
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Anonymous

Replied 5 years ago

Sir, im not selfish. I went to hospital for see him. But they said bad words to me. They said they are ready face anything including any legal procedures. He said he hates me. He will obey his parents and he doesnt like me. His family said to me they will give money i spend for him for the past years. And now trying to fix his marriage. I love him so much. Last yr i attempt to suicide and hospitalused due to this same reason. After that he realized my love is true and and he came back with me. I cant live without him. My family fried talked to his parents for our marriage. But they denied it and they said i was tried to trap him for marriage. What can i do in this situation? I have no intention to file a case. I want him back. But he is not willing to talk with me. He is fully under control of his father.

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Anonymous

Replied 5 years ago

Sir can i get an order to visit him and stay with him for his treatment? His family not ready to even talk with me.

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Vishwabandhu

Replied 5 years ago

Dear client have patient when he is cured u can marry with him through court. Do not be hasty wait and for some time and if the situation persists then again contact on this site. Lawyers of this site r well experienced so wait for some time and then again contact.

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Anonymous

Replied 5 years ago

Thanks for your support sir.

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