In-laws emotional abuse and ruining married life
3 years ago
I have been married for 4.5 years now, My husband is very much under influence of his parents and wants me to be under his parent's control. I have never been treated as a family member and always got a feeling of been used for slave purpose. My husband tries to be good to me but whenever this happens, his parents turn him against me and are cause of huge fights between me and my husband. We have a Son of 1.5 year and thus I am not able to abruptly end the marriage. Need a legal opinion for what can be done in this case. Please note: I have been emotionally ill treated by Husband and his parents which has caused me immense emotional trauma of being lonely. Need help regarding this matter.
A.It shows that your husband is puppet in the hands of your parents. Better get your husband to far away place if possible or get separate house on some religious or vastu grounds and save your marriage. You need not worry because your husband will support you one day or the other.
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A.I have gone through your query in detail.
One way out is that persuade your Husband to stay with you separately & let his parents stay in other place probably the things may improve
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YES, You can get Divorce. moving ahead with Divorce you need to know the following Legal Compliances & a few things
1) When & Where was the Marriage done?
2) Was it a Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage?
3) If it was Arranged Marriage who had taken the lead of proposal?
4) Have you both tried to solve the questions between yourselves? If Yes, What is the CURRENT position?
5) Do you have any children? If yes, then what about them & their Expenses? Are they ready to come with you?
6) What & where does Your Husband work ?
7) You can get the legal solution & that is separation & Divorce with all the Financial benefits ? Be mentally prepared to live separately as that there is NO other way out as you must have tried all the possible means till Now.
8) 1st Get all his Income papers like IT FILE or Salary Slip & property papers of all Moveable & unmovable property (XEROX) before leaving his house. (Alimony will be calculated based on these papers)
9) Take all the Ornaments & jewellery given by Your parents & Relative given to you during your Marriage & forward them all to your mother House
10) Then seek help from Local Mahila Mandal OR Mahila Aayog (WOMEN COMMISSION) If you know then good, otherwise I can help you with the assistance of Mahila Mandal OR Mahila Aayog
11) If you are unable to resolve the issue then you can file a case of domestic violence and also case under 498 A IPC against your husband and inlaws, you can also get protection, Monthly maintenance if you are NOT working and file petition to attach husband salary and property for you……. further if things are not working you can go for divorce.
12) Discuss it in detail to us & let you know the best possible way.
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ADV. ANISH PALKAR (High Court)
One way out is that persuade your Husband to stay with you separately & let his parents stay in other place probably the things may improve
OR
YES, You can get Divorce. moving ahead with Divorce you need to know the following Legal Compliances & a few things
1) When & Where was the Marriage done?
2) Was it a Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage?
3) If it was Arranged Marriage who had taken the lead of proposal?
4) Have you both tried to solve the questions between yourselves? If Yes, What is the CURRENT position?
5) Do you have any children? If yes, then what about them & their Expenses? Are they ready to come with you?
6) What & where does Your Husband work ?
7) You can get the legal solution & that is separation & Divorce with all the Financial benefits ? Be mentally prepared to live separately as that there is NO other way out as you must have tried all the possible means till Now.
8) 1st Get all his Income papers like IT FILE or Salary Slip & property papers of all Moveable & unmovable property (XEROX) before leaving his house. (Alimony will be calculated based on these papers)
9) Take all the Ornaments & jewellery given by Your parents & Relative given to you during your Marriage & forward them all to your mother House
10) Then seek help from Local Mahila Mandal OR Mahila Aayog (WOMEN COMMISSION) If you know then good, otherwise I can help you with the assistance of Mahila Mandal OR Mahila Aayog
11) If you are unable to resolve the issue then you can file a case of domestic violence and also case under 498 A IPC against your husband and inlaws, you can also get protection, Monthly maintenance if you are NOT working and file petition to attach husband salary and property for you……. further if things are not working you can go for divorce.
12) Discuss it in detail to us & let you know the best possible way.
If you realize my professional skills, the time & efforts put in by me needs to be truly appreciated, and then Please “CLICK MY LIKES/ THUMBS UP/GIFT” button shown below this reply format & also CLICK/ WRITE a “REVIEW” in 5 star as I have answered your query in detail. Hope this information is useful
ADV. ANISH PALKAR (High Court)
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