Husband and in-laws mental torture
3 years ago
Actually I don’t work and i got married last year to a man who was very much okay with it in an arranged marriage setup and before marriage also our parents stated that as they have only 2 daughters they’ll be dividing the property in 2 equal parts and give it. They agreed for a property share. But after 1-2 months of marriage itself they were demanding my parents to register those assets in my name immediately and our parents said they will do it later but gave them a legal bond paper signed telling this so n so property will be given to me. And from that day on wards my in laws and husband began mental torture telling we are cheaters and my parents cheated them and all sorts of stupid stuff would come up every time and when I started defending my parents they began by telling im back answering them not giving respect we would married a working person etc etc and inspite of many many discussions they are sticking with the same thing and now they are telling they just want respect and dnt want properties or anyth and ur family dosent give any respect blah blah. My husband just takes a middle ground in this situation and neither supports me nor his parents. I don’t know what can i do now. What kind of legal actions can i take. Please advise me. Thank you
1) When & Where was the Marriage done?
2) Was it a Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage?
3) If it was Arranged Marriage who had taken the lead of proposal?
4) Have you both tried to solve the questions between yourselves? If Yes, What is the CURRENT position?
5) Do you have any children? If yes, then what about them & their Expenses? Are they ready to come with you?
6) What & where does Your Husband work ?
7) You can get the legal solution & that is separation & Divorce with all the Financial benefits ? Be mentally prepared to live separately as that there is NO other way out as you must have tried all the possible means till Now.
8) 1st Get all his Income papers like IT FILE or Salary Slip & property papers of all Moveable & unmovable property (XEROX) before leaving his house. (Alimony will be calculated based on these papers)
9) Take all the Ornaments & jewellery given by Your parents & Relative given to you during your Marriage & forward them all to your mother House
10) Then seek help from Local Mahila Mandal OR Mahila Aayog (WOMEN COMMISSION) If you know then good, otherwise I can help you with the assistance of Mahila Mandal OR Mahila Aayog
11) If you are unable to resolve the issue then you can file a case of domestic violence and also case under 498 A IPC against your husband and inlaws, you can also get protection, Monthly maintenance if you are NOT working and file petition to attach husband salary and property for you……. further if things are not working you can go for divorce.
12) Discuss it in detail to us & let you know the best possible way.
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ADV. ANISH PALKAR (High Court)
Srinivasa Prasad
Responded 3 years ago
Take advantage of it, since your marriage is only YEAR OLD, do not try to retaliate / argue with your IN-LAWS.
It appears there is "EGO" issue in the house.
If you escalate the issue, there is every likelyhood / chance of the situation going out of hand, as such, sail with your husband and take him into your confidence.
Do not precipitate the matter, it does more harm than good.
NOTE:
Try and collect as many proofs as possible against your in-laws i.e., audio, video etc., to support you.
Try and maintain peace and harmony of the family and do not disturb the institution of Marriage.
GOOD LUCK
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Adv. Sarika Khude
Responded 3 years ago
Anjana Rana
Responded 3 years ago
And then also if the settlement is not possible, the law is strong, you can move forward and take steps for legal action.
• You can file a divorce case.
• If you feel that things are getting out of control you can file a complaint under section 498A.
• You can also file a domestic violence case.
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Rameshwar Dadhe
Responded 3 years ago
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