Separation Separation

3 years ago

We are married for 8 years with a child. We both are working. I feel a sense of imprisonment when I am with him. I need to think and talk, else face his wrath. I have a broader outlook and like to discuss things, but he assumes and starts fight. I just can't be myself when I am with him. He never likes when I talk to men and starts blaming me. My upbringing has never brought me the courage to talk about these things openly. For people who see it may not seem anything, but for me not being your true self is itself enough reason. But I am equally scared of life ahead without any support ( not financial, emotional). Whenever I try to initiate conversations , he argues and says you can leave if you dont like but he isn't going to come for any counselling as he knows he is perfect.

DIYAVARHUSSAIN SHAIK

Responded 3 years ago

A.Dear Client
As per your submissions it seems your husband is creating a conditions where you have no chance to express your opinion, share your feel, share your expression of pain and pleasure, all these comes under cruelty, if you wish to live with him then take this matter to women counselling, else if you wish to depart from him for ever then process divorce as all his actions as per your submissions attracts the provisions of divorce. you can even claim your maintenance
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Ayantika Mondal @ Prime Legal

Responded 3 years ago

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You can try and resolve your issues through mediation or conciliation, but this can only be successful if both parties are equally invested in the outcome. Alternatively, you can go for a mutual consent divorce. During the course of the divorce proceedings, you can claim interim maintenance under S.125 of the Criminal Procedure.
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You can try and resolve your issues through mediation or conciliation, but this can only be successful if both parties are equally invested in the outcome. Alternatively, you can go for a mutual consent divorce. During the course of the divorce proceedings, you can claim interim maintenance under S.125 of the Criminal Procedure.
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