Issues with Spouse & In law
1 year ago
Hi, I'm facing a deep troubled situation with my wife & her mother, I don't have father-in law as he expired long back. the problem is that my wife is very aggressive & has high rate of mood swings, we're married & it's been 5 years already & now we have 1.5 yrs old son. She gets mood off just in matter of seconds and can yell at her own mother in a snap. Her mother instead of correcting her, she just ignores it bluntly, if I try to correct her, my wife backfires on me as well & my MIL she won't even try stopping her at the time. the same situation is applicable to my parents as well. Both my wife nor her mother has any respect on my parents & now they (wife & MIL) reached to a point where their lack of success in anything is happening because of my parents secretly doing some black magic somewhere, this sounded very ridiculous to me & utter cheap mind-set. Now I'm worried what negative influence will happen to my son, if I leave house. I'm not interested in divorce as my parents will collapse if I take this matter to them, If divorce has to happen then I'll wait until they initiate it, but I want to take my son with me & take care of him. I don't want not even 0% chance of leaving him behind with these people. Please suggest me, what should I do, I'm sorry for a lengthy question, but I hope you should know at least few things before giving suggestion.
You must prolong the marriage by false promises and adjusting with your spouse otherwise it will cause much danger to your parents.