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agar mere ghar waalo ne meri shaadi kisi ladki se karadi forcefully to after marrige kya me shaadi se escape kar sakta hun?koi law hai.ki mujhe bachaye kyun hamare desh me ladkiyo ki haq me jyada law banne hai.ghar waale chahte hai meri shaadi karwana me nahi chahta agar me shaadi ke baad ladki ko chorun to woh mujhpar case naa krde bas ye janna hai aisa koi law hai ki mujhe bacha sakke. mene apne parents ko kai saalo se bta raha hun ki shaadi nahi karni mujhe lekin unhone mujhse emotionally haan karwaai but mene ye nahi kaha tha ki me shaadi nibhaunga just yes bola kyunki emotionally kiya force kara .koi law hai agar mujhe bacha sakke shaadi ke baad.

Anik

Responded 3 months ago

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A.Dear Client,

If you have consented to the marriage then you cant run away from it after getting married to the girl. There are provisions that allow marriages where consent was obtained forcefully or fraudulently to be declared as invalid but in your case that is highly unlikely unless you were asked to get married with threat to life or with some other form of threat. There is no provision where you can get married to a person and then leave her because you did not want to get married.
Thank you I hope this answer helped.
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Anonymous

Replied 3 months ago

Sir i can't find a way because if i left my home so my dad die and here at home because of younger sister (who want arrange marrige) if i left dad die so no one to marry her that's why i am stay here at home.and i can't go police station for file complaint because of this thing that i told.i done it before i try to but they lock the home then my dad got heart attack somehow i save him later next day he crying in office. (reserve bank of india where he work) call my younger sister that ladki waalo ka phone aa raha hai ye mana naa krde meri ijjat khrab ho jaayegi me mar jaunga.to meri mummy ne kaha mujhe ki mere pati ko kuch hua tujhe chorungi nahi meri choti behen ne bhi even mere ghar waale jaante me me shaadi ke liye tyaar nahi literally mene life nahi dekhi chaar deewari me bachpan se jawani nikal di bs isi wajah se nahi jaa rha police station kyunki mere support me koi nahi tabhi me yaha advice li ki after marrige escape kr skta hu kyunki me sexual relation nahi bnauga agar shaadi krwadi unhone to joki ho ke rahegi mujhe sab raaste band dikh rahe hai me jobless hun 29 ka hu ab job mushkil bhi hai milni me kya krun me to kosta hu hamesha kese ghar me paida ho gya me agar law me koi rule nahi to suicide hi hai kyunki hamare ladkiyo ke liye hi kanun bnne hai suicide is the only solution for me thankyou

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Subhashis Paul

Responded 3 months ago

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A.If you are being forced or emotionally blackmailed then kindly inform such to the local police station otherwise if you could not prove that you were forced to get married, then you can never claim your marriage as a void or illegal marriage. Moreover, for the happiness of your family do not destroy the entire life of another person who will be accompanying you for your entire life leaving her own parents and house. You have no right to destroy the life of that girl with whom you are forcefully getting married. At least you can inform that girl also that you don't want to marry right now. Then she can also call off for this marriage. Therefore take a wise decision before committing anything wrong which will destroy both of your life only. You may take help of any lawyer also for intimating the same if you cannot speak out.
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Anonymous

Replied 3 months ago

in our caste we cant meet to girl untill JaiMala Ritual at wedding.marrige made behalf of parents.its not like i we talk to.girl before marrige thing.if it happen i will definitely tell you that girl.and i ammamy times said to my parents i can't manage my wedding like because i am not stable and still i dont know about world.because i suffer my life like a wall.sorry to say but my dad is idiot who stop me to become something from my childhood to now.now i am speaking it what is good but my mom stand with dad.i told my mom too that mom i dont want to spoil someone life and mine too.please make dad to dont find girl!.she said yes later next day she said i am looking for girl that kind of parents i have.my dad working in reserve bank of india he's matriculation passed 10th! he never do drink and smoke but still he has this kind of thinking.i am telling you about recent 7 days situation.we dont have money my dad let someone in our house who's not giving us money for living who's stay and eating totally depend on us.we dont have food .my mom sold jewellery for some money and my dad borrowed money from mom to feed that person he let in our house in that situation!.easy to say that police station thing i dont have money no job what i do.if i left home he will die(dad) and mom told me if he die i will never forgive and my younger still unmarried .my younger sister want arrange marrige but i dont we both jobless. both siblings.i just agree for marrige because my dad got attack if left home.and my mom giving me warning if something happen because of me i left home she will never forgive me and do something with me.my younger sister crying and mother.they me to say yes for.marrige but inside and outside i am still dont want to marry.if this law can't solf my issues there is no way to suicide thing for i only way see to escape now! . thankyou for your suggestions sir.

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Subhashis Paul

Replied 3 months ago

Don't worry... Have faith on the judicial system.. if you ever need judicial help then you can approach Vidhikarya Team who will assist you to get the justice within the reasonable time..

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Kishan Dutt Kalaskar Retired Judge

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A.Dear Sir,
You cannot escape after marriage. There will be so many complications after marriage. You are not a kid to say that you are forcibly married. You have to face a do or die situation and run away from the house to the Police Station if forcible marriage is arranged.
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sir mene bahut baar samjhaya mummy ko bhi but meri koi nahi sunta me ek baar ghar chorke jaa bhi raha tha but papa ko panic attack to ruk gya me.after all me fir kehta rehta hu ki.meri mummy ne mujhse haa karwai ki teri wajah se mera aadmi mara chorungi nahi jabki mene kuch nahi kiya kuch.just me unke hisab se life mahi jina chahta me bachpan se lekar aajtak mene sab kehna sunna apne papa bs mene ye kaha ki shaadi nahi krni to mere papa kehte hai me mar jaunga mummy aur meri choti bhehen ko bola ki mar jaunga avar mere bete ne ye keh diya ladki waalo se shaadi nahi karni mere bete ne. to meri mummy ne kaha me apne pati kho nahi sakti meri bhehen bhi roi ki teri wajah se roya but me janta hu me.shaadi nahi nibha paunga kyunki 29 ka hu me still jobless hu.naa mere chaha naa tau koi hai ki papa ko samjhaye mummy pari likhi nahi hai.agar me fir ghar chor kar jaun to mere papa mar sakte hai .me chaahe to ghar chorke chala jaun chaahe bheek maangu lekin me nahi jaa raha mere papa mar gye to choti ki shaadi kon karega.mera bachpan deewaro me bita hai jisko duniya daari nahi pta! mene bhut koshish ki ghar se nikalne ki lekin kabhi bhi mujhe allow nahi kiya mere dost bante the to dosti churwa dete the gande ladke bolke.fir mere sab dosto ne chor diya ki tere papa ki wajah se bhai tere dur rehte.mene apni life naa sahi se ji naa dekhi naa kama paya ab bhi naukri ki talash me hu aur mene samjhaya bhi ki me shaadi nahi krunga to.nahi maan rahe ab me police case bhi kese kar sakta hun kyunki mere papa ko.ijjat ke alava kuch najar nahi aata ki mera bacha kese kush rahega yaa nahi.ab me kya btaun ki me majbur hu kyunki koi bhi samjhdaar nahi ki samjhe mujhe naa mere condition.sur kehte hai next year iski shaadi kar denge.mene mummy ko bola bhi hai police me bol dunga woh ki jabardasti force kar rhe hai tang aa kar lekin ye emotionally me haar jata hu choti bhehen hai meri papa hi kamate hai meri berojgaar hu mummy anpad hai.mummy ne apni life dukhad se ji hai.me.tang aakar mene yaha advice maangi hai agar kou low ho ki escape yaa save kr sakun kyunki agar unhone shaadi karwa bhi di me bacha bhi nahi krunga kyunki mere pass kuch hai hi nahi ki meri shaadi succes ho!naa naukri naa rishtedar naa aur kuch papa bhi kuch 5,6 saal me retired ho jaayenge..
mene chotta kaam bhi karna chaha past me papa ne bola nahi kar isse acha karumga meri ijjat khrab ho jaayegi mera beta aisa kaam kr rha hai lekin kuch nahi karne diya hamesha.mene opportunity bhi dhundi bhut papa ne roka hai hamesha.lekin mene jab ye kaha ki agar shaadi karte ho to nibhaunga nahi to fir panic attack .mujhe samjh nahi aa raha me karun to kya krun.kamane waale papa hai.me berojgaar hu 3 behen hai 2 married hai badi me choti unmarried hai .aur meri teeno behen jaanti hai choti bhehen samjhti hai samjhati bhi hai ki kisi ladki ki life mat khrab kro jab ladka nahi nibha sakta lekin mummy bhi nahi maanti.mujhe laga law me koi raasta hoga. lekin yaha bhi me haar gya!.

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Abhimanyu Shandilya

Responded 3 months ago

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A.Dear Client
If you are an adult then no body can force you to a marriage and a forceful or fraudulent marriage is not a valid marriage and you can challenge that in a court of law. But if you are not able to prove that there was force and fraud then you cannot do anything.
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Anonymous

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sir mene bahut baar samjhaya mummy ko bhi but meri koi nahi sunta me ek baar ghar chorke jaa bhi raha tha but papa ko panic attack to ruk gya me.after all me fir kehta rehta hu ki.meri mummy ne mujhse haa karwai ki teri wajah se mera aadmi mara chorungi nahi jabki mene kuch nahi kiya kuch.just me unke hisab se life mahi jina chahta me bachpan se lekar aajtak mene sab kehna sunna apne papa bs mene ye kaha ki shaadi nahi krni to mere papa kehte hai me mar jaunga mummy aur meri choti bhehen ko bola ki mar jaunga avar mere bete ne ye keh diya ladki waalo se shaadi nahi karni mere bete ne. to meri mummy n

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