I want to know if I can get any legal help in the matter below
2 months ago
I was in a relationship with a guy who is so much abusive and aggressive, after 6 months of our relationship he started abusing me, he even slapped me after drinking so much, I told everything to his family but no one helped me and at last they've asked to me to be with him only because in there family everyone knows about us so they don't want the separation to be happen between us, because according to them if we get septated to unki badnami hogi, and after talking to his mother I trusted on her words and gave him one last chance but still he started doing that again after few months so I finally decide to breakup with him but after breakup he started blackmailing me, and this things giving me mental stress, I am not able to focus on anything, what can I do for this.
1) the mahila mandal from the legal team can help you to meet your boyfriend and his family members and make them understand on the good grounds
2) if they do not understand the next step we can go to the police station and ask for police protection for women.
3) if things do not change then we can file a complaint against him and further we can also file a FIR against him.
all kind of corporation from your side will be anticipated
thanks & regards
From the contents of your query, it is not clear whether you were in a live-in-relationship or a marital relationship and even after the break-up of said relationship, you have been facing threats and blackmailing from the said guy. So your query requires more details to address it suitably.
Dealing with an abusive relationship can be emotionally and mentally distressing. Here are some steps you can consider taking to address the situation:
1. Prioritize Your Safety:
Your safety is the top priority. If you feel threatened or unsafe, consider reaching out to friends, family, or local authorities for support. Ensure that you are in a secure environment.
2. Document the Abuse:
Keep records of any abusive incidents, including dates, times, and descriptions. Save any threatening messages or evidence of blackmail. This documentation can be useful if legal action is required.
3. Restraining Order:
If the harassment continues, you may want to explore obtaining a restraining order (also known as a protection order) against the individual. This legal measure can help provide a legal barrier between you and the abuser.
4. Seek Support from Friends and Family:
Share your situation with friends and family who can offer emotional support. It's important to have a support system during difficult times.
5. Contact a Helpline or Support Organization:
Reach out to helplines or organizations that specialize in supporting individuals facing domestic abuse. They can provide guidance, resources, and assistance.
6. Legal Advice:
Consult with a legal professional to understand your rights and options. They can provide advice on potential legal actions you may take, such as filing a police report or pursuing a legal case against the abuser.
7. Counseling and Therapy:
Consider seeking counseling or therapy to help cope with the emotional impact of the abusive relationship. Mental health professionals can provide guidance on healing and moving forward.
8. Change Contact Information:
If possible, consider changing your phone number and other contact information to limit the abuser's ability to reach you.
Remember, you are not alone, and there are resources available to support you. If you are in immediate danger or facing an emergency, please contact your local emergency services. Additionally, consider reaching out to local domestic violence helplines or support organizations for assistance tailored to your location.