My wife requesting for MCD
5 years ago
Dear Sir/Madam,
We have intercaste married without our parents permission on 2016. her parents doesnt knw abt our marriage. she lived in her home with her parents. I requested her parents for our marriage. but they refused,.her parents not willing to join us til today. Due to some depression I gone through I yelled at her some times very harsly. and I healed myself and asked many sorrys. and begging her till today. inbetween she told abt our register marriage to her parents. but now she is requesting for divorce.
1. she gone through problems due to my angerness. it happened when I gone though much depression on my family problems and also she dint properly convinced her parents. she wasted 2 years by not saying. so i slowly convinced her, but no luck one day I bursted at her.
2. her parents without torturing her, they changed her mind and comforted her eventhough they know she married to me.
so she took this decision. but I love her alot, Im regretting why I yelled at her. She decided not to live with me and requesting for mutual separation.
Nirmal Chopra
Responded 5 years ago
Firstly, in order to save yourself from police case, send a complaint to local police station that your wife has voluntarily left ur home and wait for some time for her to respond because time is the biggest healer.it is possible that better sense may prevail upon your wif and her parents who are doing nothing but putting the life of the daughter on fire.
Secondly, go for mutual settlement through friends and relatives to sort out differences. Thirdly, go for pre-litigation mediation if available in your city/ district to sort out differences with your wife. It is a rough patch in your life and once u pass through it without litigation, hopefully your wife may return because it is im-maturity in both of you which in my opinion is the real problem and nothing else.it is said all is well which ends well.so try to sort out all disputes amicably.
kamal Vasudevan
Replied 5 years ago
Thanks for the advice, small doubt. If she has applied for divorce, is it possible that I can counter for mediation first?
Nirmal Chopra
Replied 5 years ago
Yes you can go for mediation. Even the court always try for mediation and settlement for the purpose of amicable settlement and not for giving divorce. It is only when there is no settlement, that the court will decide divorce petition.
kamal Vasudevan
Replied 5 years ago
Thanks sir, in the meanwhile if she applied for any harrassment or abuser case means, even though is it possible for mediation to tel my truth?
Nirmal Chopra
Replied 5 years ago
U Should not admit ur mistake .otherwise u will land yourself in trouble. But settlement can be arrived at in any proceedings. Even if a complaint has been filed in dowry cell, settlement can be arrived at there also.
kamal Vasudevan
Replied 5 years ago
settlement means i need to give settlement (money) for her?
Nirmal Chopra
Replied 5 years ago
Settlement can be living together or getting separated by giving money( permanent alimony / one time)
kamal Vasudevan
Replied 5 years ago
Thank sir.
Past is past. Let your lover live her own life and start new life without further wasting the young age. The pro forma mutual divorce is as follows.
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Divorce by Mutual Consent Step by Step Procedure
Hindus: Under Section 13B of the Hindu Marriage Act, a husband and wife can file a mutual divorce only when they have lived apart for at least a year. The couple must jointly mention about inability to continue the marital relationship due to some unavoidable circumstances. Both the sides must voluntarily agree to dissolve the marriage. The filing of a mutual divorce by both the husband and the wife is termed as ‘the first motion’. A couple can file for a second motion after a gap of six months. This time span is provided to the couple so that they get time to reconsider their marriage. A divorce decree can be passed before the completion of the six months term if all the mandatory requirements are sufficed. If the divorce file is not withdrawn within 18 months,the court passes a divorce decree. In case one of the sides withdraws the petition,the court initiates to make an enquiry. If the concerned side disagrees to give the consent,the court holds no right to pass the judgment.
kamal Vasudevan
Replied 5 years ago
Thank you sir,
she changed her mind due to her parents caste issue is the one of the reasons. she blocked my number and she dint speak even a single word, her brother contacting me for further formalities.
since im truly loving her. is it possible to make understand her?
kamal Vasudevan
Replied 5 years ago
Thanks for the advice, small doubt. If she has applied for divorce, is it possible that I can counter for mediation first?
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