Mutual Divorce - Before marriage my husband pretended to be a very calm person
10 months ago
Hi,
I got married in last year July and its June now. Before marriage my husband pretended to be a very calm person. But after we got married i got to know that he has severe anger issues and ego problems. From the third month he started abusing me, said so many vulgar things to me u cant even describe. The verbal abuse was so much that i even had a panic attack once this year in Jan. He also beat me up infront if his mother, though his mother was trying to protect me but that was something i havent even imagine would happen to me. Everytime i told him to not use such abusive language its affecting my mental health., but the next time his abuses gets more intense. He started abusing my parents as well. Would talk about there marriage and how my father is of dark complexion and whatnot unnecessary things. I always remain dumbfounded on the new ways he find to abuse me and my parents. Once he hit my stomach with his leg and also kept his feet on my mouth. But i dont hv any evidence of it. After every fight he would come up to me and say he is sorry. He said when he is in qnger he feels to hurt me more and keep hurting. Most of the abuse was verbal but he started beating me too.
We were living with my in laws since marriage, ita a small village, and all this happened there. I didn't tell them as every time my husband world come up to me and day he is sorry. Some time he will even cry as well, so i never told my in laws untill December. He used to thriw me out of our riom and i had to sleep with my mother in law and he would come in the morning to again get angry on me. My in laws would scold them to behave properly but he wont. Its happend thrice that i had to sleep with my mother in law for 4-5 days of the week i couldnt go to my room as he was always there.
In Jan he said that since we are getting any privacy thats why all this is happening. If we move to our work location then we can roam and enjoy life. I thought to giving this chance to my marriage thinking it might get better.
We moved to Hyderabad in last week of Jan. But there he made my life hell. He had issues with everything i do. It was like if I'll move also he will get angry.
He used such bitter words for my parents who doesn't even know what's happening with me. I never told my parents what kind of a person is he. This was because i got married late after my parents long wait and i wanted to make every effort to work this marriage out. In hyderabad i literally used to lock myself in a room and he would just roam outside it whole day banging on the door cursing me and my parents. Multiple times he asked me togoto my parents and divorce him. Finally i couldn't bear and left him in Feb and came to my parents home. Thats when i told them what was happening.
My question is if i want to take mutual divorce how long would it take to get it. Our one year of marriange would complete in July 1st week.
I dont want anything from him. Just the jewellery we gave them i want it back and i will teturn whats theirs. Is there any way i can get a divorce before having a 6month cooling period.
Since feb i M living with my parents.
Divorce by mutual consent can be obtained within six months, but no petition in such a case can be filed within first year of marriage. There also has to be gap of six months between the first and second motions. The court can waive this cooling off period in some cases.
You can file the petition for divorce only after the one year mark.