pre marriage
6 months ago
My would be husband sometimes tells jokingly that even if we torture you, you will not get divorce...because if you do then you have to pay alimony to me because you earn more...and is we are moving forward I find some lies have been told to me and his mother has started to change from the beginning...I am too scared as my parents have no son and they know all the assets will be mine....His mother has told once through my partner that she wished for a traditional housewife and did not want intercaste marriage...but if she is still agreeing then what is going on in her mind...I am not sure what my partner have told her to convince her...I am scared what if after marriage they will tell me "okay fine, give a divorce and give us alimony and leave"... Because now also sometimes when my partner gets angry he says go and tell the police that I lied many things....nothing will happen...please help mw
In the absence of any cause of action that requires legal advice/recourse, as a legal counselor I don't find it appropriate to pass any comments on a matter that exclusively belongs to your personal affairs. Being an independent and well-educated woman you need to make a mature and well-informed decision in the matter to make your life happier and secure if you feel your relationship with your would-be husband is toxic and not adjustable post-marriage. Occasionally, open counseling with a professional who handles matrimonial matters may help you to choose the right path ahead.