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3 years ago
My husband doesnt value me in anyway as a wife or a human being and he is not so communicative basically. It's becoming more day by day and we have a lot of misunderstandings. He doesn't care for me anymore. I just want to get divorced and go away. Please help me.
A.If you have made up your mind to give divorce then contact lawyer for divorce.
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A.Try for Mutual divorce otherwise you have to make rounds for 4 years.
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Periyamuthu Asai
Responded 3 years ago
A.Filing divorce in your area court
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ARSHAD ALI ZAIDI ADVOCATE
Responded 3 years ago
A.I think this is a matter of mutual trust and mistrust. Try to understand whatever problems your husband has. Cultivate confidence with that family that you understand their problem and will solve it. If you find the problem, try to solve it. It is not easy to instill confidence in husband and wife so soon. It often happens that as soon as the girl reaches her in-laws, she is told of her responsibilities and everyone expects her to do the same, which she cannot find herself capable of fulfilling. She has come into a new family, it takes time to understand this new family. If even a single person in the in-laws is going to understand and understand it, then it becomes a matter. This work can usually do well. If the girl feels that there is no difference between her mother-in-law and her mother, then the problem can be solved. Try to solve this problem by mutual conversation. If the efforts are made with your efforts, then it is okay, otherwise only think about divorce after that.
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Meenakshi Garg
Responded 3 years ago
A.Dear client,
You can file a divorce which can be either mutual or contested.
In case of mutual divorce you can talk to your husband and if he agrees then you can part your ways without any hassle.
Another way is contested in which you have to file the petition and your husband will contest the petition. Now in case of contested divorce you have to show some serious grounds for divorce and as I can read you have a ground of harassment due to which you need divorce.
So you can go ahead with any of the option but first and foremost my suggestion is that you both should sit and amicably settle your issues.
You can file a divorce which can be either mutual or contested.
In case of mutual divorce you can talk to your husband and if he agrees then you can part your ways without any hassle.
Another way is contested in which you have to file the petition and your husband will contest the petition. Now in case of contested divorce you have to show some serious grounds for divorce and as I can read you have a ground of harassment due to which you need divorce.
So you can go ahead with any of the option but first and foremost my suggestion is that you both should sit and amicably settle your issues.
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A.YES, You can get Divorce.
As per your question it seems that you are the Victim in Bad Marriage & moving ahead with Divorce you need to know the following Legal Compliances & a few things
1) When & Where was the Marriage done?
2) Was it a Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage?
3) If it was Arranged Marriage who had taken the lead of proposal?
4) Have you both tried to solve the questions between yourselves? If Yes, What is the CURRENT position?
5) Do you have any children? If yes, then what about them & their Expenses? Are they ready to come with you?
6) What & where does Your Husband work ?
7) You can get the legal solution & that is separation & Divorce with all the Financial benefits ? Be mentally prepared to live separately as that there is NO other way out as you must have tried all the possible means till Now.
8) 1st Get all his Income papers like IT FILE or Salary Slip & property papers of all Moveable & unmovable property (XEROX) before leaving his house. (Alimony will be calculated based on these papers)
9) Take all the Ornaments & jewellery given by Your parents & Relative given to you during your Marriage & forward them all to your mother House
10) Then seek help from Local Mahila Mandal OR Mahila Aayog (WOMEN COMMISSION) If you know then good, otherwise I can help you with the assistance of Mahila Mandal OR Mahila Aayog
11) If you are unable to resolve the issue then you can file a case of domestic violence and also case under 498 A IPC against your husband and inlaws, you can also get protection, Monthly maintenance if you are NOT working and file petition to attach husband salary and property for you……. further if things are not working you can go for divorce.
12) Discuss it in detail to us & let you know the best possible way.
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ADV. ANISH PALKAR (High Court)
As per your question it seems that you are the Victim in Bad Marriage & moving ahead with Divorce you need to know the following Legal Compliances & a few things
1) When & Where was the Marriage done?
2) Was it a Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage?
3) If it was Arranged Marriage who had taken the lead of proposal?
4) Have you both tried to solve the questions between yourselves? If Yes, What is the CURRENT position?
5) Do you have any children? If yes, then what about them & their Expenses? Are they ready to come with you?
6) What & where does Your Husband work ?
7) You can get the legal solution & that is separation & Divorce with all the Financial benefits ? Be mentally prepared to live separately as that there is NO other way out as you must have tried all the possible means till Now.
8) 1st Get all his Income papers like IT FILE or Salary Slip & property papers of all Moveable & unmovable property (XEROX) before leaving his house. (Alimony will be calculated based on these papers)
9) Take all the Ornaments & jewellery given by Your parents & Relative given to you during your Marriage & forward them all to your mother House
10) Then seek help from Local Mahila Mandal OR Mahila Aayog (WOMEN COMMISSION) If you know then good, otherwise I can help you with the assistance of Mahila Mandal OR Mahila Aayog
11) If you are unable to resolve the issue then you can file a case of domestic violence and also case under 498 A IPC against your husband and inlaws, you can also get protection, Monthly maintenance if you are NOT working and file petition to attach husband salary and property for you……. further if things are not working you can go for divorce.
12) Discuss it in detail to us & let you know the best possible way.
If you realize my professional skills, the time & efforts put in by me needs to be truly appreciated, and then Please “CLICK MY LIKES/ THUMBS UP/GIFT” button shown below this reply format & also CLICK/ WRITE a “REVIEW” in 5 star as I have answered your query in detail. Hope this information is useful
ADV. ANISH PALKAR (High Court)
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