Divorce
3 years ago
I m married since 13 years . My husband is a very keen and money minded person. He always pressure me to earn money from day one , although he is doing well in his career . We have two daughters. I do not want to stay with him. I ran a gift store before corona virus pandemic which I had to close. After that he is pressuring me to take a shop on much higher rent because he thinks it is good for more earning. But I am not in the position to handle this apressure. He always tries to prove me a person good for nothing. He gives me a lot of mental torture occasionally physical abuses me. I never used his money for ant of my personal things other than basics like cheapest clothing available in market and food
I just wanted to get separate from him. I don't want any alumni or any maintenance. But he is not ready to let me go . What should I do . We are living in the same house but it is toxic . I usually remain silent at home to avoid any quaral In front of my daughters. But this made me mentally ill day by day. Need help
Adv. Sarika Khude
Responded 3 years ago
Suneel Moudgil
Responded 3 years ago
and,
if you want to terminate the matrimonial knot, then,
try to settle the matter amicably with your husband involving elders/relatives/friends etc and go for Mutual Consent Divorce which will be decided in 6-18 months, and you both will be free to live life with your wish,
don't forget to draft an MOU before approaching Mutual Divorce, which is the most essential and important part of a Divorce case to avoid/reduce future legal complications,
some basic points to keep in mind and put in writing through an MOU before filing the petition for mutual consent divorce are custody of kids, distribution of assets (movable/immovable), quash/withdraw of pending litigation if any, Maintenance (present/future), Alimony, mode and time of making the payment, streedhan, future litigation, etc.
if failed, you are advised to file/claim
498a complaint (for causing mental, emotional, physical and monetary abuse, etc)
Domestic Violence case (for causing mental, emotional, physical and monetary abuse, etc)
you have rights to claim residence, protection, compensation, maintenance,
if you do not want to opt the divorce presently, you can ask for judicial separation also,
Ayantika Mondal @ Prime Legal
Responded 3 years ago
You can consult a family lawyer or opt for mediation.
Sanjay Kumar Jha
Responded 3 years ago
There is last hope to go for divorce, for your mental peace, but it would not work during and after divorce to face financial shortage. U have 2 daughters. You also do not want any money from him. If you couLd face so hardship then u may proceed fir filing divorce partition before family court. You can also personally appear before Family Court and argue ur case. But better will be through an Advocate. Which would again cost you.
Counciling of your husband may work. Rest you can do.
Thanks
Just go for mutual consent divorce or file multiple cases including contested divorce on the ground of cruelty.
Kanchan Kumari
Responded 3 years ago
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