Marriage Ambiguity
3 years ago
Hi, Wanted to take advice on an unfavorable situation, below i am narrating my problem:-
I got married in 2019 & everything was going well with little hiccups (Obviously), in Jun '20 there was a small argument where my mother scold my wife & she started crying after a couple of hours, my mother hugged my wife & wiped her tears putting sorry as a statement, all ended well but suddenly in the evening her parents came & started yelling at us & demanding that they wanted to take her daughter for 4-5 days, we got to know from her cousin sister that my wife was telling all the things to her parents (even our bedroom talks), they took her off from me in jun'20 & till 5 months she had not spoken to me, I always tried to make things normal & approached her several times but she had never shown interest & only answered whatever question I asked. After 5 months finally, I called her mother & got my wife back with her little condition that she won't share her salary with us. Again after 15 days just on little taunt from me she again called her parents, I tried to console her & spoke to her mother that pls don't come il handle this situation but she refused & came with 8 people & retook her daughter again with my wife's consent. This again happened in Nov & afterward she didn't even contact me at all. No msgs, no phone calls neither her parents calling me.
This is the second time she did like this, she always leaves home & didn't try to come back neither do any contacts, I am not sure how to handle this situation & what should i do.
You may apply for mediation.
Mediation is a very flexible process as the parties to it decide their own suitable time. Mediation can be used in divorce and in other disputes so to avoid taking the case to court. Mediation is an informal process to resolve disputes, and the third-party is the mediator who clarifies the misunderstanding between the parties.
The couple works with a trained mediator, who uses dispute resolution techniques to help define the issues and gain understanding, discover hidden interests and creates options for breaking impasses and improving the couple's conflict resolution and interpersonal communication skills.
Ayantika Mondal @ Prime Legal
Responded 3 years ago
You may apply for arbitration, in order to make an effort to save your marriage.
Arbitration is a form of dispute resolution. It is a procedure in which a dispute is submitted, by agreement of the parties, to one or more arbitrators who make a binding decision on the dispute, which is enforceable by the court.
However, if you want divorce, you may file a case for divorce.