can my husband roam freely by filing for divorce without allowing me to home

2 years ago

After 2 months of marriage came to my parents home for various reasons from my in laws family which is joint family(duserra festival, trust issues of my husband n issue with my mother in law). My husband and in-law came and dropped me at my parents and demanded for open discussion with all family elders. all listened to the issues n said these are common issues in newly weds n he should come for festival and pick me up. After few days as my husband didn't come i called him and said i will be coming home back then he blackmailed me if i come back he will run away and if i have to come i have to write a bond that if anythg happens to my life its not his n his family responsibility n also if anythg happens to his family me and my family has to take responsibility. It looked strange for us and tried to talk to thier family for resolving issues and my mother in law came after months and blackmailed me to write the same on white paper and took mine n my parents signatures, still my husband didn't allow me saying he want his among all elders n in notary. My parents hesitated for his and it took some time for me to convice my parents n in the mean time my husband said he want divorce and he don't to stay in relation anymore. from then their family keep an act my husband moved separate and staying in pg. my husband is not lifting our calls, when tried to contact my in law she is escaping saying she is not feeling well and his brother also saying that my husband is not listening to anyone and he moved out of house on his own will and none can do anything. My husband is blackmailing me that he won't stay with me anymore n for lifetime he will fight for divorce by running away remotely if don't sign for mutual divorce n also they moved al the properties to his brother and mother name and saying he doesn't have any properties on his name to give and he left his job also bcz of these issues. He is publicly posting in social media everyday parties and drinking and enjoying happly and he is saying it is take life time for the court to settle the divorce and he wants the same and want to enjoy the life this way and none can do anythg to him and his family and they will be safe this way from me. Inspite of all my efforts made to stay with him i am left with false accuses and divorce notice and tortured me n my parents mentally and now they are are staying happy and i lost my job bcz of relocation n can't focus on anythg and left homeless depending on my parents currently. Even if he do another marriage also i can't know as we both are staying in different cities. Can i please know if the only option left for me is fighting in court for lifetime and let him and his family enjoy the life