due to marriage harrasment

6 months ago

I got married in April 2022, before that we were engaged for 6 months, after 2 months of marriage, my husband gifted me a mobile and I started using it well, before the marriage and before giving the mobile. My husband's behavior was good for me but after giving me the mobile, my husband's behavior started changing but he never let me realize this. He would remain angry for some time and then he would become alright. And I also used to talk on phone with my family members, including one of my cousins, with whom I used to share any of my problems and jokes since childhood, but my husband forbade me to talk to him. Gave and this is of November 2022 and since that day I never talked to my cousin brother and his family and in this matter we both sat and talked and everything became fine but after 2 months in January my husband's friend I was repeatedly told that why don't you both separate with consent, anyway this marriage is not going to stop, when I told this to my husband, he also said that he is right. . I did not pay much attention to this nor told anyone at home. After that everything started going well.
But from May 2023, these dramas of my husband started again… But this time I started being blackmailed by my husband and this kind of blackmail was also that he had made videos of the personal moments of both of us and then showed them to me. He started doing wrong things like anal sex, blowjob etc. I also started doing all this out of fear because he used to tell me that if you do not listen to me then I will post this video on the internet and then see how you and your family fare. There is defamation. And after marriage, my husband never stayed at home on any holiday, he used to go with his friends and then he used to come back and tell me that we had called this girl there and we had a lot of fun and used to tell me that your I don't think this is true, you have become loose, I used to just keep shedding tears. But since 16th August 2023, he has crossed all limits, he has left me at my home and when my family members go to him, my in-laws and he himself speaks very dirty things and says that I want to separate BS and The evidence is visible and he said that he had installed recording apps in the mobile phone he had given me, which would distort whatever I said to my cousin, edit it and present it in front of everyone and defame my name by associating it with my cousin. She is saying that both of them are having an affair and I (husband) will defame her (me). And he says that he will not give even 1 rupee as dowry. Now I am not able to understand what to do, everyone in the house is worried because of me, I am not able to even go to legal because he says that I will win that case also because he has done all this with complete planning. And whatever you want to do, you can do no harm to me, my friends and my family. And along with this he also says that I neither want to take a decision among the senior 5 people nor in the court, whatever has to be done should be done by both the families sitting together because if it is your (me) fault then you will have to leave everything. , because he has proof and I have no proof

Please try to give correct advice.