Husband being mentally physically and emotionally harassed

1 month ago

1) This is a case about my relatives whose son stays with DIL(daugher in law). She stayed with them for close to 20 days before she went to her husband. In these 20 days she was working till last day (teacher) including weekends(some duty). The inlaws had treated her very well moreover had no time with her rather served her. Once she moved with her husband she complained to the MIL that she has commited a mistake by getting married as the son is not giving her a gift on karwachauth and moreover iltreats her when she asks for money. The mother called the son to ask endeavour's. As per the son he had transferred 90K that month in her account and was left with no money to buy anything hence he said i cant buy gift. The fights now started surfacing on call. The son kept saying she is saying she got less jewellery, she was not allowed to shop properly for wedding. The girl then kept abusing the SON and abuse his parents in front of him on a phone call to her mother/relatives. Post this the song put foot down and asked her brother to pick her up as he is tired. All her relatives then called and the parents dont know what was agreed but son said its ok she will live with me(however the girl did not call inlaws apologise for her misbehaviour , tone or anything). Since it was about their son they kept quiet but soon the parents were restless as the son kept asking cost of jwellary given to her, asking for money deposits parents have, sporadic call to sell house. The parents wanted to see the ordeal themselves. The girl now said to Son that his parents mis treated her and did not gave her due respect hence she has nothing to do with them . The boy in a hope she will she will get happy planned trip which she was insisting on to GOA( as per the gal she was pregnant and beginning of first trimister) despite advice from parents side that this time is not good for travel he went as his wife said its fine. Also post going to goa she insisted on drinking (the son objected) she however wanted and drank. Post arrival she said she has bleeding and pain. Once consulted with doctor she said she wants to abort the child. The mother in law took care by cooking and doing other things while she was on bed rest. However post recovery she again started fighting. She told parents not to talk to her. The son also did not want any discussion as he was scare she will file a wrong complaint (which she kept threatening , I will put all of u in jail). In this whole time the son was continuously paying the girl per month 25-30K vs when she worked she earned 15K. Being a class I officier she also continuously pointed that he doesn't have a standard, big car, enough savings and wants a plot etc etc. Now post the return the parents complained about her behaviour to DIL's brother and explained life doesn't work like this. The boy called in distress and asked his parents not to talk to anyone from her family. Post this one month the son again called parents at 3 am and started crying as why did they ruin his life and all the girl cares about is money , jewellery and why did they take even smallest of gifts(there was no dowry, cash or kind that was given in wedding ) The gifts are customary and much more smaller as against all people gave girl. The parents are now worried as this will put their son in mental trauma and in case of his death also the girl is at advantage. The girls family was with her during this fight and there was no sign of intervention even during 1 hour call.